Quoting Quiverfull: Helicopter Parenting?

March 2, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Mary Pride in Homeschool World 2008 You might be thinking, “Who cares how a bunch of rich snobs raise their kids?” The reason I brought all this up is that today’s middle-class homeschooling (and other) parents are in the same boat as yesterday’s Harvard parents. They knew that the right

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Shedding the Burqa Part 2

March 1, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by Cindy Foster While I waited in the car with the kids, my husband stayed behind and told The Preacher that we would be leaving. This was actually the second time he told him.  The first was the day The Preacher administered ‘The Shunning’

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CTBHHM Women’s Created Purpose

February 28, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 21 God gave Adam the most precious gift a man will ever receive – a woman. … If you are a wife, you were created to fill a need, and in that capacity you are “a good thing,” a helper

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True Love Waits

February 28, 2013 By 14 Comments
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by Betty Crux   If there is anything I have very, very vivid memories of, it’s youth group at either church we attended.   I was a loser, no getting around it.  I wasn’t good looking, and my parents weren’t helping that fact.  I had

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Quoting Quiverfull: Children Rebel Why?

February 28, 2013 By 3 Comments
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by Jay Younts at Shepherd Press – February 22, 2013 Children, then, come next. You are to train your children to know God and then prepare to leave your home. Yet, things get turned around. Husbands and wives often spend time attempting to change each other

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