Quoting Quiverfull: Dare to be Different?

February 1, 2013 By 4 Comments
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Colin Campbell Meat for Men at Above Rubies January 29, 2013 The “box” represents the ways of human wisdom. People who think outside the box have taken time to think wisely about what is in the box. If what’s in the box takes us away from the time-tested

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Was I Spiritually Abused?

January 31, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Becoming Worldly (Welcome to NLQ new SASBN member Becoming Worldly!) I was just asked if I could add my blog to No Longer Quivering, a site for people who have left and are speaking out against the Quiverfull movement and people who are interested in learning about such things. My blog will now be [...]

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Spiritual Abuse: A Victim’s Guide to Recovery

January 31, 2013 By Leave a Comment
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Review by Vyckie Garrison Lisa Kerr, who blogs at My Cult Life, has written a brief (60 pages), but jam-packed victim’s guide to recovery from spiritual abuse which is currently available via Amazon digital services. While not specifically geared toward the Quiverfull worldview, Lisa’s guide is an NLQ-recommended

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Quoting Quiverful: Martyrdom

January 31, 2013 By 2 Comments
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From Smith Wigglesworth “Before God could bring me to this place He has broken me a thousand times.” Comments open below   QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ

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The Gender Issue

January 30, 2013 By 3 Comments
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by Wendy Leifeld (Editor’s note: The link for this article came into my email box (thanks Frank!)  and while it was written & originally published back in 1992 it illustrates the same struggles over gender roles occurring in churches and in

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