Quoting Quiverfull: No Anger At God?

March 26, 2013 By 7 Comments
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by John Piper from his book “The Momentary Marriage – A Parable of Permanence” pages 150 – 151 Anger devours almost all other good emotions. It deadens the soul. It numbs the heart to joy and gratitude and hope and tenderness

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Sunday Challenge – How Has Your Self Body Image Changed?

March 24, 2013 By 3 Comments
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Introducing the NLQ Sunday Challenge! What it’s all about is you, you writing in and sharing your take on the topic picked for the week, sharing your hard earned wisdom with others. Just write up as little or as much as you feel like saying on that subject, email it to

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Linda Murphrey Writes an Open Letter to First Baptist Church Hammond

March 24, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Bruce Gerencser Linda Murphrey is the daughter of the late Jack Hyles. What follows is an excerpt of an open letter Linda wrote to First Baptist Church in Hammond, Indiana. I hope you will take the time to read the entire letter on Linda’s website:

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Quoting Quiverful: Mental Health?

March 17, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by John Piper in “10 Resolutions for Mental Health” at desiringGOD That night Dr. Kilby had a pastoral heart and a poet’s eye. He pled with us to stop seeking mental health in the mirror of self-analysis, but instead to drink in the remedies of God in nature. He was not

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How Male Dominated Religion Bleeds Women

March 14, 2013 By 22 Comments
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by Cindy Foster My husband, Paul, and I were enjoying some Mexican food at a restaurant near where we were staying in Houston last night. Sitting at a table in very close proximity to ours was a Muslim family.  We see a lot of Muslim families these days, but more so

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