Quoting Quiverfull: Tangled is Amoral?

November 27, 2012 By 19 Comments

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage

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My Journey

November 26, 2012 By Leave a Comment
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 by Mr. Calulu The journey started out innocently enough when a friend invited our family to attend his church in 1995. I had met him working at a part time job a few years earlier and just liked the guy. We had a number of other things in common, his kids were about the same [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Is “Brave” Brave?

November 26, 2012 By 13 Comments

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine

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“Men Must Be Spiritual Leaders” – Real Life Consequences

November 25, 2012 By 10 Comments
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by Kristen Rosser (KRWordgazer) “The man should be the spiritual leader of the home.”  That is the standard teaching of most Protestant, evangelical churches.  The Open Bible website has a whole page of Scriptures which apparently support this– many of which I have addressed elsewhere on this blog.  I believe this

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Quoting Quiverful: Don’t Burden Men?

November 25, 2012 By 13 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine

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