Fear-Based Parenting

October 24, 2012 By 5 Comments
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by Kristen Rosser aka KRWordgazer Latebloomer at Past Tense Present Progressive is blogging about Reb Bradley’s book Child Training Tips.  Calulu at Roadkill on the Information Superhighway is blogging about Michael and Debbi Pearl’s To Train Up a Child.  I’d like to chime in today with some thoughts about the method of child rearing which the two books share: they call [...]

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The Sexuality Project – Part 2

October 23, 2012 By 2 Comments

by Sierra The Religious Fundamentalism and Sexuality Project has (finally) returned! Last time, we met Calulu, Jenn, Meggie, Parker, Shadowspring and Vyckie. Unfortunately, Shadowspring will not be able to continue her story this fall. As a result, I’ll be adding Libby Exline’s answers to this group in her place. Libby’s introduction is below, along with her answer [...]

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Abstinence, Adultery, Alternative Sexualities, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Child Training, Femininity vs Feminism, Issues, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Marriage Covenant, Men are Visual, Mental / Emotional Health, More from NLQ ..., Motherhood, Must Read! ~ NLQ Readers Choice ..., NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Quote Worthy, NLQ Stories, Purity, Quiverfull Topics, SASBN, Self-Loathing, Self-Preservation Factor, Sexuality, Shame, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Vyckie's Posts Tagged With: , , , 2 Comments

On a Lighter Note

October 22, 2012 By 1 Comment

by Mari The only time we ever got new clothes was on our birthdays and Christmas. At this point in my life, I totally understand that. I don’t see the point in buying each kid a bunch of new clothes when they’re going to outgrow them in a matter of weeks or months. I don’t [...]

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Millipede Part 32 How Did I Get Here? Part 3

October 21, 2012 By Leave a Comment
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by Millipede In my case, the path started when I became involved in various “patriot” groups. Ironically, I was at first very careful to weed out the chauvinists and the misogynists. How women were viewed and treated was a make or break issue with me. My husband at the time was like most “average” guys [...]

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Alienation, Beautiful Girlhood, Bible Interpretation, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Christian Modesty, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Control, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Family Integrated Church, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Help Meet, Home Church, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Judgementalism, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Life Stories, Like-Minded Fellowship, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marriage Covenant, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Millipede, Mutuality, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Patriarchy, Patriotism, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Purity, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull Topics, Racism / White Supremacy, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Separation - Individuation, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, Titus 2 Woman, Toxic Relationships, Umbrella of Authority, Weaker Vessel, What It's All About, Wordgazers Words - KR Wordgazer - Kristen Rosser Tagged With: , , , , Leave a Comment

Why I Find Perverse Pleasure in the Sexual Peccadilloes of Evangelical Leaders

October 20, 2012 By 10 Comments

by Bruce Gerencser I am quite indifferent to the sexual peccadillos of others. What consenting adults do sexually is none of my business. I think so-called sexual “sins” like adultery and fornication find their foundation in the Bible and I reject the Bible as a moral or ethical standard. We are sexual creatures. Desiring to [...]

Filed Under: 40 Days to Save America - Rick Scarborough, Abstinence, Accountability, Adultery, Any Cause Divorce, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Boundaries, Complimentarianism, Control, Covenant Breaking, Demonic Influences, Dinesh D'Souza, Dinesh D'Souza, Divorce & Remarriage, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Elitism, Fallen From Grace by Bruce Gerencser, Family Driven Faith: A Former Independent Fundamental Baptist Pastor's Perspective on Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Hot Topics, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Issues, Judgementalism, Legalism, Life Stories, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marriage Covenant, Mental / Emotional Health, Mutuality, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Pornography, Purity, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull Discernment Websites, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Rock Star Pastors, SASBN, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Sexuality, Shame, Soul-Binding, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Adultery, Spiritual Issues, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Toxic Relationships Tagged With: , , , , 10 Comments