Quoting Quiverfull: The “Suckling Mother”?

January 11, 2013 By 19 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Prospect.org: Purity Culture is Rape Culture

January 10, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Sierra Trigger warning: The linked article contains a graphic description of gang rape. In fact, the warning applies to all of the links in this post. E.J. Graff at The American Prospect writes, in Purity Culture is Rape Culture: Too many people still conceive of rape as a man’s overwhelming urge to enjoy the body [...]

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Unconditional Respect = Participation Trophies?

January 9, 2013 By 3 Comments
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by Love. Learning. Liberty. Growing up I always had a special attraction to World War II stories.  I was taught to lionize Corrie Ten Boom and others who stood up against the Nazis, risking their lives to protect others.  I fell in love with Dietrich Boenhoffer.  I read Alexander

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Vyckie Garrison Podcast on Cognitive Dissonance

January 7, 2013 By Leave a Comment
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Vyckie Garrison of No Longer Quivering appeared on the Cognitive Dissonance podcast – http://dissonancepod.com/?p=428

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Resources For Recovery From Spiritual Abuse

January 7, 2013 By 4 Comments
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Many of the emails we get here at No Longer Quivering involve asking for help, either asking for help dealing with the fall out of leaving an abusive cult-like situation or asking for advice or help to get someone else out. Because of the flood of emails coming in asking for help

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