Fascinating Womanhood Review: Introduction

June 18, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Samantha cross posted from her blog Defeating The Dragons In the quoted portions, bold are my emphasis, italics are hers. That, folks, is what we’re going to be talking about today, and I’m going to start us off with a short explanation of what the male gaze is.

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Trim Healthy Mama – Snake in the Grass

June 18, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Calulu This morning as I was playing my morning interesting Russian roulette (dangerous for my cup of coffee!) of reading through the various Quiverfull ministry sites I came across an update for the ladies of “Trim Healthy Mama”.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Building a House Means Birthing Those Babies?

June 18, 2013 By 3 Comments
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by Nancy Campbell at Above Rubies – Building Also Means… Further to my post yesterday, there is more involved in the word building than meets the eye. The word in the Hebrew is “banah.”

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A Disconnected Father’s Day

June 17, 2013 By 3 Comments
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by Heather Doney cross posted from her blog Becoming Worldly   Today lots of people are celebrating “Dad time” but I am not. Most of the time I just let this holiday go by without too much attention but today I figured I had something to share, even if it’s a bit heavy. I know [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Influencing Free Choice

June 15, 2013 By 9 Comments
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By Michael and Debi Pearl on fatherhood: How do we as fathers influence our children’s free will to make a choice to love God? Many young parents write, alarmed by the end results of other people’s grown homeschooled children.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Biblical Fatherhood?

June 15, 2013 By 3 Comments
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Instead of listening just one pastor or leader talking about his ideas on Biblical Fatherhood we’ll be listing a pile of quotes by many different people in fundamentalism.

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Saturday News Links: June 15, 2013

June 15, 2013 By 5 Comments

  Billy Graham’s grandson speaks out about the Sovereign Grace Ministries lawsuit – http://www.christianpost.com/news/billy-grahams-grandson-responds-to-sovereign-grace-ministries-lawsuit-97590/

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CTBHHM: The Command Man Tames the Shrew

June 15, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love Joy Feminism Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 77-80 You might want to start out by getting a glass of wine. You’re going to need it.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Southern Baptists Teach Sodomy?

June 15, 2013 By 2 Comments
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Vaughn Ohlman of Perservero News – Sodomite Scouts and the Southern Baptists But no one should be surprised, as the Southern Baptists are merely following the tradition they laid down in the matter of the government schools.

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Speaking Strongly While Female

June 14, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Kristen Rosser cross posted from her blog Wordgazer’s Words I don’t generally watch Fox News.  But this discussion hosted by Megyn Kelly at Fox News in response to this Fox News discussion hosted by Lou Dobbs,

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