Quoting Quiverfull: Being Patient With Children (While You Think About Beating the Crap Out of Them)?

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by Michael Pearl from No Greater Joy magazine - Jeremiah and Penelope\I guess he believes in everyone extending patience but himself. … [Read more...]

Day 14 of 21 Days of Healing: I’d Rather Be…

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by Ellen cross posted from her blog When Church HurtsWe have peace with God through our Lord Jesus . . . ” Romans 5:1 Think on this calming thought today.Day 14Yesterday, I talked about the “To-Don’t” list and how I took some time to just stop and rest. I took more than a day and I hope that you will, too. I rested until I was tired of resting. And once I was tired of resting, I started thinking about what I’d rather be doing. In other words, what would my day look like if I could do whatever I wanted?Because, for the longest time, I did what I thought other people wanted. Or what people told me God wanted. Whether it was doing or being, I was always focused on fulfilling othe … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Proud of Mental Illness?

Why do Evangelicals find mental health treatment so frightening and mysterious?

by Voddie Baucham from his sermon "Nebuchadnezzar Loses His Mind" as transcribed by R.L. Stollar from Homeschoolers Anonymous posted on his Facebook feed.Didn't Voddie say that you should never watch television? Sounds like he's been watching a lot of "Law and Order: SVU" and listening to Dr. George Huang on SVU. This is some of the usual disgusting shaming of mental illness and those that suffer from it. … [Read more...]

Preparing To Be A Help Meet: Part 2 – Pie in the Sky

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by Mel cross posted from her blog When Cows and Kids Collide(Trigger Warning for abusive church behaviors.)Ever wonder if Debi would pull her punches on friends?She doesn't. When a "friend" has the audacity to get a divorce from an abusive husband AND marry a different man, Debi spews out the massive misinformation created by a conspiracy to destroy the woman's magazine.I know it sounds crazy...but the information is a matter of public record since the woman and her second husband were brave enough to sue. … [Read more...]

“Un-Friending”

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by Ellen cross posted from her blog When Church HurtsYesterday, I was asked to list three things that have happened in the past year that I can celebrate. Immediately, I wrote that both of my sons graduated from college and both have jobs in their fields of study – not always an easy task these days. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Don’t Let Your Children Burn in Hell!?

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by Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies - How Will You Get In?Not merely content to tell you to stay in your home cheerfully raising your hordes or children now Nancy wants you to worry about your eternal salvation and the salvation of your children! She's really pushing those guilt buttons very hard today! … [Read more...]

Preparing To Be A Help Meet: Part 1 – Pie in the Sky

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by Mel cross posted from her blog When Cows and Kids CollideAfter the last chapter, a girl might be thinking about using electronic communication - get to know a guy without worrying about accidentally dragging his sexual feeling into the picture.WRONG!The real name of this chapter should be "INTERWEBS IS EVIL!" … [Read more...]

Jill Dillard Versus Jessa Seewald – Part 1

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Yesterday evening as I did my daily spin through the piles of articles generated about TLC's the Duggar family of '19 Kids and Counting' and various homophobic actions it dawned on me that it genuinely looks as though Duggar married daughters Jill Duggar Dillard and Jessa Duggar Seewald are actually waging a war over who gets the most publicity and public interest. This shit just got all too real looking.Why they are doing this could be interpreted at least a couple of different ways. … [Read more...]

Gently Gently During The Holidays

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by Suzanne TitkemeyerI just could not take it any more after looking down and realizing in the bright winter sunlight flooding into my living room that my television remote control looked like it had been dipped in some sort of combination of Cheeto dust, coconut oil and the sands of time then sat out to dry for a decade. Yes, yes it was encrusted and gross. I'd noticed it before, but in the past I'd sighed and mentally made a note to disinfect my hands after using the remote because to give it the scrubbing it needed would surely involve ruining the electronic function of this most sacred of male totems. … [Read more...]

Day 13 of 21 Days of Healing: Making Your “To Don’t” List

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by Ellen cross posted from her blog When Church HurtsGod loves you. God loves you. God loves you. How is your brain change going?Day 13I’m sure you’ve heard those worn out lines like: Christianity is just a list of “don’t’s.” Don’t drink, smoke, swear, sleep around, lie, etc.At my first abusive church there were a lot of “don’t’s.”At my second abusive church, there were a lot of “do’s.” … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Now the Men Have to be Freakin’ Cheerful Too?

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by Colin Campbell of Meat For Men - The Heart Test 1cThis reads more like Nancy Campbell, his wife, wrote this more than anything Colin has said in the past! … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Biblical Solution to False Rape Accusations?

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by  Gary DeMar at both Ladies Against Feminism and Godfather Politics - A Biblical Solution to False Rape ChargesIf I'm not mistaken they seem to be advocating either jail time or death for false accusers. Is this really any way to solve a problem? … [Read more...]


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