Quoting Quiverfull: Gratitude Changes Men?

December 28, 2012 By 10 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Christianity and Christian Patriarchy are not the same thing

December 26, 2012 By 1 Comment
godzilla

by Sierra A moment of clarification: If you read my previous post and thought I was issuing a call to arms against the Christian religion, please be aware of this distinction. The Christian Patriarchy movement is a

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Modesty, Body Policing and Rape Culture: Connecting the Dots

December 17, 2012 By 45 Comments
modesty1

by Sierra Definition: The “modesty doctrine” is the belief that women need to cover their bodies to prevent men from being attracted to them, because sexual attraction is lust that leads to sin and death for both.  The modesty doctrine is not the same as

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The Incredible Helplessness of Men: Lust Edition, Epilogue

December 7, 2012 By 10 Comments
reille

by Sierra   Following up my last post about the John Edwards and Rielle Hunter affair, have a look at some of the comments on the article I cited. Gross. Her skin is pasty, not attractive, especially when paired with a white bathing suit.

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The Incredible Helplessness of Men: Lust Edition

December 6, 2012 By 6 Comments
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by Sierra (Editorial note: I went into Sierra’s blog to get a few of her The Sexuality Project posts to reblog here at NLQ and ran across this. While the Edwards-Hunter scandal is now old news the lie accepted by the world and patriarchy that men cannot control their sexual selves needs to be exposed. [...]

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