Quoting Quiverfull: Southern Baptists Teach Sodomy?

June 15, 2013 By 2 Comments
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Vaughn Ohlman of Perservero News – Sodomite Scouts and the Southern Baptists But no one should be surprised, as the Southern Baptists are merely following the tradition they laid down in the matter of the government schools.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Woman, It’s STILL Your Fault Maybe?

May 11, 2013 By 4 Comments
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From yesterday’s Quoting Quiverfull by Nathaniel Darnell  on Persevero News. This is a comment that the writer of the piece Nathaniel Darnell made to a divorced homeschooling momma’s question in the comments. I am sorry to hear that your husband has divorced you. This is a shame. Even so, however, my statement is still true [...]

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In Which Debi Poisons the Well

April 23, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 49-51 Dear Debi, How can I have a merry heart when my husband treats me harshly? Do I just pretend he is a good man instead of a lazy, TV-watching,

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Bible Spice & Blame Shifting – Adventures in Recovery

March 3, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Calulu “Tell me what you want, what you really, really want..” – The Spice Girls from their song “Wannabe” One of those many things I’ve come to view differently after leaving Patriarchal Fundamentalism is the tendency of those I was around to blame

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Indentifying Spiritual Abuse: The Pastor Litmus Test – The Newtown CT Shooting

December 16, 2012 By 6 Comments
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Sometimes identifying spiritual abuse isn’t an easy task, particularly if it is coming directly from the pulpit. Today as you listen to various pastors and teachers speaking about Friday’s tragic murder of those twenty school children ponder on the way they talk

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