by Vyckie Garrison – Originally posted at secularwoman.org Fifth article in Secular Woman’s Women’s History Month Series. by Vyckie Garrison, No Longer Quivering Life without choices is simple. As a young woman, when faced with
Choosing my Future
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Mama’s Choice – Part 6: Inception
by Vyckie Garrison Ever since I watched the movie, Inception, I’ve wanted to shout to the world, Wow – that happened to me! And here I thought Quiverfull was my own idea all along!! If you haven’t seen the movie, here’s a quick summary: “Inception” is the implantation of another person’s idea into a target’s [...]
Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Above Rubies (Nancy Campbell), Advance Training Institute (ATI) / Institution for Basic Life Principles (IBLP) (Bill Gothard), American Vision (Gary DeMar), Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Birth Control, Bounded Choice, Christian Moms of Many Blessings, Complimentarianism, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Family Reformation Magazine (James & Stacy McDonald), Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Focus On The Family (James Dobson / Jim Daly), Group Think, Help Meet, Hot Topics, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), JimBob & Michelle Duggar, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Mary Pride, Maternal Martyr, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mega-Families, Mental / Emotional Health, Militant Fecundity, Motherhood, Mutuality, Nancy Campbell, Natural Family Planning, NLQ FAQs, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Pro-Life, Proverbs 31 Woman, Psalm 127 / Quiverfull: Be Fruitful & Multiply, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Topics, SASBN, Select Entries, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Titus 2 Woman, Triggers, Uncategorized, Vision Forum (Doug Phillips), Visionary Daughters (Anna Sophia & Elizabeth Botkin), Vyckie's Posts, Weaker Vessel Tagged With: Bounded Choice, Christian Brainwashing, militant fecundity, quiverfull, Trusting God, Vision Forum (Doug Phillips) 3 Comments
Mama’s Choice – Part 3: Ultimatum
by Vyckie Garrison While we’re on the topic of Choice – although I’ve written about this before, I must say it again: what choices do devoted Christian women really have? “If He is not Lord of all, He is not Lord at all.” “What is most important?” Nancy Campbell asks Christian women. ”When we refuse [...]
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Raised Quiverfull: Questioning Q. 3
by Libby Anne (and friends) Cross posted from Love, Joy, Feminism. Raised Quiverfull Introduction — Questioning Summary Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering [...]
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Millipede: Part 8
by Millipede The next couple of years were what I would call the “golden years” of Patriarchy. By this I mean that we were living the Patriarchal dream, with the husband “leading” and providing and the wife keeping the home and being submissive. It was the apex of our journey; we were finally living the [...]
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