by Johnathan Lindvall at Bold Christian Living – The Dangers of Dating Today we believe young people should marry the one they love. Does the scripture ever support such a notion? The Bible teaches us to love the one you marry. Aren’t these
Quoting Quiverfull: Emotions Fickle?
Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Abstinence, Accountability, Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Bold Christian Living (Jonathan Lindvall), Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Child Training, Christian Modesty, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Confession, Control, Controlling Emotions & being cheerful always, Courtship / Betrothal, Demonic Influences, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Emotional Purity, Emotions, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, First Kiss at the Altar, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Honoring Parents, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Instant, Joyous, Obedience, Isolation, Issues, Jonathan Lindvall, Judgementalism, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Marriage Covenant, Mental / Emotional Health, More from NLQ ..., NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Purity, Purity Culture, Quiverfull, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Resources, Quiverfull Topics, Quoting Quiverfull, Rape Culture, Self-Righteousness, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, The Myth of Teenage Rebellion, True Love Waits, Uncategorized, Zero Choice Tagged With: Bold Christian Living - Johnathan Lindvall, Control, Controlling Emotions & Thoughts, Courtship / Betrothal, Johnathan Lindvall 12 Comments
Raised Quiverfull: Living the Life Part 1
by Libby Anne Raised Quiverfull Introduction — Questioning Summary Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering questions about their experiences. Question 1: [...]
Filed Under: Abstinence, Accountability, Advance Training Institute (ATI) / Institution for Basic Life Principles (IBLP) (Bill Gothard), Alienation, Any Cause Divorce, Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Bill Gothard, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Child Labor, Christian Modesty, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Control, Courtship / Betrothal, Covenant Breaking, Created To Be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl, Divorce & Remarriage, Drinking the Koolaid, Educational Neglect, Elitism, Emotional Incest, Enmeshment, Family Driven Faith by Voddie Baucham, Family Integrated Church, Fear of Hell, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Growing Kids God's Way / Babywise by Gary Ezzo, Help Meet, Home Church, Homemaking Skills, Homeschool, Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches (IFB), Isolation, Issues, Judgementalism, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Like-Minded Fellowship, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Marriage Covenant, Mary Pride, Maternal Martyr, Mega Churches, Mega-Families, Mental / Emotional Health, Motherhood, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, No Greater Joy (Michael & Debi Pearl), No Greater Joy by Michael Pearl, Parentification of Children, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Psalm 127 / Quiverfull: Be Fruitful & Multiply, Purity, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Resources, Quiverfull Topics, Raised Quiverfull, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, SASBN, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Separation - Individuation, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The "Rod", The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, To Train Up A Child (TTUAC) by Michael Pearl, Toxic Relationships, Umbrella of Authority, William Branham - Message of the Hour, ¼ Inch Plumbing Supply Line Tagged With: Abstinence, Accountability, Advance Training Institute (ATI) / Institution for Basic Life Principles (IBLP) (Bill Gothard), Alienation, Any Cause Divorce, Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, bill gothard, Botkin Syndrome, boundaries, Child Labor, Christian Modesty, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Control, Courtship / Betrothal, Covenant Breaking, Created To Be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl, Divorce & Remarriage, Drinking the Koolaid, Educational Neglect, Elitism, Emotional Incest, Enmeshment, Family Driven Faith by Voddie Baucham, family-integrated church, fear of hell, fundamentalism, gender equality, Group Think, Growing Kids God’s Way / Babywise by Gary Ezzo, help meet, home church, Homemaking Skills, homeschool, Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches (IFB), Isolation, Issues, Judgementalism, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, like minded fellowship, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing “Biblical Family Values”, Marriage Covenant, mary pride, Maternal Martyr, Mega Churches, Mega-Families, Mental / Emotional Health, Motherhood, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, No Greater Joy (Michael & Debi Pearl), No Greater Joy by Michael Pearl, Parentification of Children, patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Psalm 127 / Quiverfull: Be Fruitful & Multiply, Purity, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Resources, Quiverfull Topics, Raised Quiverfull, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, SASBN, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Separation – Individuation, spiritual abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, The “Rod”, To Train Up A Child (TTUAC) by Michael Pearl, toxic relationships, Umbrella of Authority, William Branham – Message of the Hour, ¼ Inch Plumbing Supply Line 1 Comment
Dispelled: Part 10
by Chandra It didn’t take long for myself and Darren’s lengthy friendship to turn from dating to committed to one another. We were very much in love, and our voluminous email correspondence had already paved the ground for much of our relationship. I was so happy- I had met the man that I had been [...]
Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Alienation, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Boundaries, Child Training, College for Daughters, Control, Courtship / Betrothal, Dispelled ~ One Girl's Journey in a Home School Cult, Educational Neglect, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Help Meet, Homeschool, Hope Chest, Instant, Joyous, Obedience, Isolation, Issues, Judgementalism, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, List of Qualities for Future Spouse, Maintaining Appearances, Male Headship, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marriage Covenant, Men are Visual, Mental / Emotional Health, Motherhood, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Overbearing Mothers, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, SASBN, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Separation - Individuation, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Stay At Home Daughters (SAHDs), Submission, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Toxic Relationships Tagged With: A Woman’s Choice, Alienation, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, boundaries, Child Training, College for Daughters, Control, Courtship / Betrothal, Dispelled ~ One Girl’s Journey in a Home School Cult, Educational Neglect, fundamentalism, gender equality, Group Think, help meet, homeschool, Hope Chest, Instant, Isolation, Issues, Joyous, Judgementalism, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, List of Qualities for Future Spouse, Maintaining Appearances, male headship, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marriage Covenant, Men are Visual, Mental / Emotional Health, Motherhood, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Obedience, Overbearing Mothers, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, SASBN, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Separation – Individuation, spiritual abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Stay At Home Daughters (SAHDs), Submission, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, toxic relationships 3 Comments
Review: Pixar’s Brave is Braver Than it Looks
by Sierra Pixar’s Brave is every fairy tale and none of them. It’s every trope and none of them. It’s filled with lovable scamps, bumbling eccentrics, defiant courage, enchanted landscapes, stifling expectations and unintended consequences. And it’s filled with beautiful brogue and wayward redheads. I’m going to talk my way through this movie. It’s currently 10:30pm. [...]
Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Boundaries, Courtship / Betrothal, Femininity vs Feminism, Gender Equality, Issues, Maintaining Appearances, Male Headship, Must Read! ~ NLQ Readers Choice ..., NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Reviews, NLQ Stories, Overbearing Mothers, Personal Autonomy, Quiverfull Topics, SASBN, Sibling Relationships, Stay At Home Daughters (SAHDs), The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Umbrella of Authority Tagged With: A Woman’s Choice, Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, boundaries, Courtship / Betrothal, Femininity vs Feminism, gender equality, Issues, Maintaining Appearances, male headship, Must Read! ~ NLQ Readers Choice …, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Reviews, NLQ Stories, Overbearing Mothers, Personal Autonomy, Quiverfull Topics, SASBN, Sibling Relationships, Stay At Home Daughters (SAHDs), The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Umbrella of Authority 12 Comments
Hey Christian Girl!
Last night someone pointed NLQ to this great Tumblr account – Hey Christian Girl. If cheesy Christian-speak pickup lines trigger you then I would not visit the link. It’s funny and it’s sad at the same time because I can so hear these things coming out of the mouths of various young Christian guys I’ve [...]
Filed Under: Abstinence, Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Christian Modesty, Courtship / Betrothal, Early Marriage, Emotional Purity, First Kiss at the Altar, Marriage Covenant, Men are Visual, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, Purity, The Godly Woman, True Love Waits Tagged With: Abstinence, Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Christian Modesty, Courtship / Betrothal, Early Marriage, Emotional Purity, First Kiss at the Altar, Marriage Covenant, Men are Visual, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, Purity, The Godly Woman, True Love Waits 4 Comments
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