Jinger Duggar Wants Out?

May 3, 2013 By 9 Comments
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Radar Online has been having a long series of Duggar related articles through the years. They posted again about Jinger Duggar’s desire to be in the big city and put up a clip of the Duggar girls speculating on what type of men they would want as husbands. Sounds like they’ve been reading Debi Pearl’s [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Unequally Yoked in Marriage?

April 21, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Mark Cowperthwaite of Biblical Families “So You’re Looking For a Wife?” When considering 2 Corinthians 6:14-18, even the tenor of Paul’s letters to the church at Corinth in general, there is no hint that it would be anything short of folly

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Quoting Quiverfull: What is Betrothal?

March 22, 2013 By 18 Comments
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by Jonathan Lindvall at Bold Christian Living In the story of Christ s birth we have an interesting illustration of the practice of betrothal. Joseph was deliberating what he should do with Mary, his betrothed wife, having learned

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Quoting Quiverfull: Older Single Women?

March 6, 2013 By 10 Comments
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Jonathan Lindvall of Bold Christian Living Still, Biblically, the parents’ role (and particularly that of a woman’s father) is very significant. I suppose it is theoretically conceivable the Lord would lead a woman to enter a betrothal covenant and marry without her father’s

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Quoting Quiverfull: Marriage Crisis Part 3?

February 24, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin of Visionary Daughters article “Why Am I Not Married?” – July 1, 2010 What is the Solution? There is no quick fix for a

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