CTBHHM: Single Moms Turned Lesbian

June 1, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love, Joy, Feminism Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 67-72 Debi’s purpose in this entire section is to make her readers terrified of the thought of divorce. Her goal is to make sure that her readers won’t even think of leaving

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Quoting Quiverfull: Peace?

May 7, 2013 By 9 Comments
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by Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies We talked yesterday about deception. Peace is another area where we can be deceived. People often say that have peace about something, but really it is just a RELIEF from their circumstances.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Smiting Over Fatherhood & Divorce?

April 16, 2013 By 14 Comments
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Colin Campbell of Meet For Men He Has a Fathers Heart  April 16, 2013 All this divorce by Christians is having a debilitating affect upon our nation, as well as future generations. We certainly need this Elijah anointing to turn our hearts back to the value of children. The “one to two children” 

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Millipede: Part 38 How Did I Get Here? Part 9

December 5, 2012 By 4 Comments
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by Millipede How Did I get here …. It comes down to this:  patriarchy is as much about selling false hopes to women as it is about anything else. We are told that it is something to be embraced as part of God’s Will, we are told that it is a cure

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NLQ FAQ: Are Jim Bob & Michelle Duggar "Quiverfull"?

March 8, 2010 By 13 Comments

by Hopewell Q: Are the Duggars Quiverfull? By their own admission, Jim-Bob and Michelle were so “grieved” after reading the information pamphlet in a birth control pill package that they turned their fertility over to God. (“About Us” para.1 See also, Dallas News).  That decision has been the reason for their incredible family size of [...]

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