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Raised Quiverfull: Questioning, Q. 1

June 7, 2012 By Suzanne Calulu 2 Comments

by Libby Anne Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering questions about their experiences. How were you first exposed to “mainstream” American culture? [...]

Filed Under: Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Botkin Syndrome, Child Training, Christian Modesty, College for Daughters, Control, Demonic Influences, Elitism, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Group Think, Homeschool, Honoring Parents, Instant, Joyous, Obedience, Isolation, Issues, Love, Joy, Feminism (Libby Anne), Markers of a Cult, Mental / Emotional Health, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Overbearing Mothers, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Purity, Quiverfull Discernment Websites, Quiverfull Topics, Raised Quiverful - Libby Anne, Self-Preservation Factor, Socialization, Spiritual Issues, The Godly Woman Tagged With: Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Botkin Syndrome, Child Training, Christian Modesty, College for Daughters, Control, Demonic Influences, Elitism, fear of hell, Fear tactics, Feminism (Libby Anne), Group Think, homeschool, Honoring Parents, Instant, Isolation, Issues, Joy, Joyous, Love, Markers of a Cult, Mental / Emotional Health, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Obedience, Overbearing Mothers, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Purity, Quiverfull Discernment Websites, Quiverfull Topics, Raised Quiverful – Libby Anne, Self-Preservation Factor, Socialization, Spiritual Issues, The Godly Woman 2 Comments

Millipede Part 7

June 5, 2012 By Suzanne Calulu 11 Comments

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by Millipede This is not to say that my years embracing Patriarchy were all bad. Despite many bad changes and warning signs, there were moments of joy. Staying at home was fun. I promised myself to stay busy so as it was all too tempting to sit around. I made myself a “work” schedule complete [...]

Filed Under: Accountability, Alienation, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Boundaries, Christian Modesty, Debt-Free Living, Elitism, Frugality, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gardening, Gender Equality, Homemaking, Homemaking Skills, Homesteading, Isolation, Issues, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Millipede, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Prosperity Gospel, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Topics, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Spiritual Issues, Stewardship, Submission, The Godly Woman, Titus 2 Woman, Weaker Vessel Tagged With: Accountability, Alienation, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, boundaries, Christian Modesty, debt-free living, Elitism, Frugality, fruit of the spirit, fundamentalism, Gardening, gender equality, Homemaking, Homemaking Skills, Homesteading, Isolation, Issues, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, meek and quiet spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Millipede, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Prosperity Gospel, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Topics, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Spiritual Issues, Stewardship, Submission, The Godly Woman, titus 2 woman, Weaker Vessel 11 Comments

Rebuilding

June 4, 2012 By Suzanne Calulu 12 Comments

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by Bruce Gerencser Nine years have passed since I preached my last sermon, since my wife was called the “pastor’s wife.” Almost four years have passed since my wife and I determined to stop attending church. We are now among the “unchurched”, casualties of a life spent in Evangelical Christianity. Worse yet, at least according [...]

Filed Under: Accountability, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Boundaries, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Control, Elitism, Fallen From Grace by Bruce Gerencser, Family Integrated Church, Family Ministry / Service, Formulaic Religion, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Help Meet, Isolation, Issues, Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Legalism, Markers of a Cult, Marriage Covenant, Mental / Emotional Health, Motherhood, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman Tagged With: Accountability, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, boundaries, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Control, Elitism, Fallen From Grace by Bruce Gerencser, Family Ministry / Service, family-integrated church, Formulaic Religion, fundamentalism, gender equality, Group Think, help meet, Isolation, Issues, Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Legalism, Markers of a Cult, Marriage Covenant, Mental / Emotional Health, Motherhood, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman 12 Comments

Who Was That Masked Man? Part 6

June 3, 2012 By Suzanne Calulu 10 Comments

by Calulu When we last left the Smiths they had reconciled and were determined to make everyone be best friends forever again. Nothing doing. Things ratchet up a few new levels of tension. 9/11 happens. I’m sitting in front of the television having coffee and folding clothes when CNN shows the coverage of the first [...]

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Adultery, Alienation, Anxiety, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Boundaries, Confession, Control, Depression, Elitism, Femininity vs Feminism, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Help Meet, Hospitality, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Jezebel Spirit, Judgementalism, Legalism, Like-Minded Fellowship, Maintaining Appearances, Male Headship, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Motherhood, Mr. Command Man, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Topics, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Righteousness, Servant Leadership, Shame, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, Titus 2 Woman, Toxic Relationships, Who Was That Masked Man by Calulu Tagged With: A Woman’s Choice, Accountability, Adultery, Alienation, Anxiety, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, boundaries, Confession, Control, depression, Elitism, Femininity vs Feminism, fundamentalism, gender equality, Group Think, help meet, hospitality, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Jezebel Spirit, Judgementalism, Legalism, like minded fellowship, Maintaining Appearances, male headship, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, meek and quiet spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Motherhood, Mr. Command Man, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Topics, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Righteousness, Servant Leadership, Shame, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, titus 2 woman, toxic relationships, Who Was That Masked Man by Calulu 10 Comments

Raised Quiverfull: Introductory Questions

June 2, 2012 By Suzanne Calulu 3 Comments

by Libby Anne Welcome to Raised Quiverfull! Nine young adults who grew up in the Christian Patriarchy and Quiverfull movements have come together to answer a series of questions about their experiences. All of these young adults have since questioned and left these ideologies and have chosen their own life paths. The goal of the [...]

Filed Under: 20 and Counting by JimBob & Michelle Duggar, 49 Character Qualities, Above Rubies (Nancy Campbell), Advance Training Institute (ATI) / Institution for Basic Life Principles (IBLP) (Bill Gothard), Alienation, American Boys Adventure Catalogue (Vision Forum), American Vision (Gary DeMar), Anxiety, Atheism, Beautiful Girlhood Catalogue (Vision Forum), Birth Control, Bold Christian Living (Jonathan Lindvall), Bosch Mixer, Boundaries, Child Abuse, Child Labor, Children are a Blessing - Moore Family Films, Chores, Chores, Chores!, Christian Charm Course: Today's Social Graces for Every Girl by Emily Hunter, Christian Modesty, Christian Moms of Many Blessings, Cloth Diapering, College for Daughters, Complimentarianism, Council on Biblical Manhood & Womanhood (John Piper), Courtship / Betrothal, Created To Be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl, Depression, Dispelled ~ One Girl's Journey in a Home School Cult, Divorce & Remarriage, Do Hard Things by Brett & Alex Harris, Drinking the Koolaid, Early Marriage, Elitism, Emotional Incest, Enmeshment, ezer kenedgo, Father Worship, Femininity vs Feminism, Focus On The Family (James Dobson / Jim Daly), Formulaic Religion, Francis & Edith Schaeffer, Frugality, Fundamentalism, Gardening, Gender Equality, Geoffrey Botkin, Headcovering, Home Birth, Homemade Bread, Homemaking Skills, Honoring Parents, Hope Chest, Hospitality, How Should We Then Live? by Francis Schaeffer, Husbands Love Your Wives, Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches (IFB), Infertility, Instant, Joyous, Obedience, Isolation, Jennie Chancey, Jezebel Spirit, Jonathan Lindvall, Judgementalism, Keepers At Home (Keepers of the Faith), League of Grateful Sons, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Maternal Martyr, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mega Churches, Mega-Families, Mental / Emotional Health, Militant Fecundity, More from NLQ ..., Must Read! ~ NLQ Readers Choice ..., Mutuality, Nancy Campbell, NLQ Miscellany, No Greater Joy by Michael Pearl, Not Under Bondage: Biblical Divorce for Abuse and Desertion by Barbara Roberts, Old Paths, Overpopulation / Demographic Winter, Passionate Housewives Desperate for God by Jenny Chancey & Stacy McDonald, Patriarch Magazine by Phil Lancaster, Patrick Henry College, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Polygamy, Psalm 127 / Quiverfull: Be Fruitful & Multiply, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Books, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Ministries, R.C. Sproul Jr., Raising Maidens of Virtue by Stacy McDonald, Return of the Daughters (Vision Forum), Richard "Little Bear" Wheeler, Rock Star Pastors, Select Entries, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Loathing, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Serene Campbell, Sexuality, Shame, Sibling Relationships, Site Updates, So Much More by Anna Sophia & Elizabeth Botkin, Soul-Binding, Spiritual Adultery, Spiritual Issues, Stay At Home Daughters (SAHDs), Stewardship, Tapati's Body Image Workshop, Terrific Twos, The "Rod", The God Card ~ Thoughts on Patriarchal Teachings, The King's Daughter by J. White, The Myth of Teenage Rebellion, The Principle Approach: Christian Self-Government by The Foundation for American Christian Education (FACE), The Rebelution (Brett & Alex Harris), The Way Home / All The Way Home by Mary Pride, Toxic Relationships, Training Our Daughters to be Keepers at Home by Ann Ward, Training Your Children To Be Strong in Spirit by Michael Pearl, transgendered, Troll Dolls, True Love Waits, Uncategorized, Vision Forum (Doug Phillips), Visionary Daughters (Anna Sophia & Elizabeth Botkin), Waiting for Her Isaac by Mr. and Mrs. Stephen B. Castleberry, Wisdom's Gate Publications: Home School Digest / Encouraging Word (Skeet Savage, Women's Sufferage - Voting Rights Tagged With: 20 and Counting by JimBob & Michelle Duggar, 49 Character Qualities, Above Rubies (Nancy Campbell), Advance Training Institute (ATI) / Institution for Basic Life Principles (IBLP) (Bill Gothard), Alienation, American Boys Adventure Catalogue (Vision Forum), American Vision (Gary DeMar), Anxiety, atheism, Beautiful Girlhood Catalogue (Vision Forum), birth control, Bold Christian Living (Jonathan Lindvall), Bosch Mixer, boundaries, child abuse, Child Labor, Children are a Blessing – Moore Family Films, Chores, Chores!, Christian Charm Course: Today’s Social Graces for Every Girl by Emily Hunter, Christian Modesty, Christian Moms of Many Blessings, Cloth Diapering, College for Daughters, Complimentarianism, Council on Biblical Manhood & Womanhood (John Piper), Courtship / Betrothal, Created To Be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl, depression, Dispelled ~ One Girl’s Journey in a Home School Cult, Divorce & Remarriage, Do Hard Things by Brett & Alex Harris, Drinking the Koolaid, Early Marriage, Elitism, Emotional Incest, Enmeshment, ezer kenedgo, Father Worship, Femininity vs Feminism, Focus On The Family (James Dobson / Jim Daly), Formulaic Religion, Francis & Edith Schaeffer, Frugality, fundamentalism, Gardening, gender equality, Geoffrey Botkin, headcovering, home birth, Homemade Bread, Homemaking Skills, Honoring Parents, Hope Chest, hospitality, How Should We Then Live? by Francis Schaeffer, Husbands love your wives, Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches (IFB), infertility, Instant, Isolation, Jennie Chancey, Jezebel Spirit, jonathan lindvall, Joyous, Judgementalism, Keepers At Home (Keepers of the Faith), League of Grateful Sons, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Marketing “Biblical Family Values”, Maternal Martyr, meek and quiet spirit, Mega Churches, Mega-Families, Mental / Emotional Health, militant fecundity, More from NLQ …, Must Read! ~ NLQ Readers Choice …, Mutuality, nancy campbell, NLQ Miscellany, No Greater Joy by Michael Pearl, Not Under Bondage: Biblical Divorce for Abuse and Desertion by Barbara Roberts, Obedience, Old Paths, Overpopulation / Demographic Winter, Passionate Housewives Desperate for God by Jenny Chancey & Stacy McDonald, Patriarch Magazine by Phil Lancaster, Patrick Henry College, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Polygamy, Psalm 127 / Quiverfull: Be Fruitful & Multiply, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Books, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Ministries, R. C. Sproul Jr., Raising Maidens of Virtue by Stacy McDonald, Return of the Daughters (Vision Forum), Richard “Little Bear” Wheeler, Rock Star Pastors, Select Entries, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Loathing, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Serene Campbell, Sexuality, Shame, Sibling Relationships, Site Updates, So Much More by Anna Sophia & Elizabeth Botkin, Soul-Binding, Spiritual Adultery, Spiritual Issues, Stay At Home Daughters (SAHDs), Stewardship, Tapati’s Body Image Workshop, Terrific Twos, The God Card ~ Thoughts on Patriarchal Teachings, The King’s Daughter by J. White, The Myth of Teenage Rebellion, The Principle Approach: Christian Self-Government by The Foundation for American Christian Education (FACE), The Rebelution (Brett & Alex Harris), The Way Home / All The Way Home by Mary Pride, The “Rod”, toxic relationships, Training Our Daughters to be Keepers at Home by Ann Ward, Training Your Children To Be Strong in Spirit by Michael Pearl, transgendered, troll dolls, True Love Waits, Uncategorized, Vision Forum (Doug Phillips), Visionary Daughters (Anna Sophia & Elizabeth Botkin), Waiting for Her Isaac by Mr. and Mrs. Stephen B. Castleberry, Wisdom’s Gate Publications: Home School Digest / Encouraging Word (Skeet Savage, Women’s Sufferage – Voting Rights 3 Comments

Vyckie Garrison started No Longer Quivering to tell the story of her “escape” from the Quiverfull movement.

Over time, NLQ has developed into a valuable resource of information regarding the deceptions and dangers of the Quiverfull philosophy and lifestyle. Several more former QF adherents are now contributing their stories to NLQ and our collective voice makes these Quiverfull warnings impossible to dismiss or ignore.

NLQ is a gathering place for women escaping and recovering from spiritual abuse.

Listen to Vyckie's Story now:

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