Quoting Quiverfull: Self Pity & Sexual Immorality?

April 15, 2013 By 14 Comments
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by Jay Younts at Shepherd Press – April 12, 2013 A toddler sulks because she can’t play when it is time for a nap. A nine-year-old feels deprived because he has to share the video game console with his little brother.  A young teenager thinks he is an outcast because no one who is “cool” [...]

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Who Was That Masked Man: Part 9

June 26, 2012 By 11 Comments

by Calulu High school graduation loomed for Tom’s oldest non-disabled kid, a son that’s as bright as they come. The son has always been in the gifted and talented program at the local schools and was eligible for a few different college scholarships. The problem was that except for the small scholarship money there was [...]

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Raised Quiverfull: Living the Life Part 1

June 25, 2012 By 1 Comment

by Libby Anne Raised Quiverfull Introduction — Questioning Summary Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering questions about their experiences.     Question 1: [...]

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Millipede: Part 10

June 22, 2012 By 7 Comments
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by Millipede In face of these events, I found work. Once I overcame my husband’s reluctance to enter the workforce, he seemed to accept the situation. He drove me to pick up applications. He still held to his Patriarchal beliefs, but in light of our situation, he got over issue of my returning to the [...]

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Pornography and the Fundy

June 19, 2012 By 17 Comments
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by Calulu (Warning, possibly triggering and some of the links are of the not safe for work variety.) Recently I started thinking about pornography. Not that I was partaking it in, it’s never done anything for me. I might as well be looking at a pile of rutabagas or dirty socks. It is what it [...]

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