CTBHHM: Michael’s Meat, Sit Down and Shut Up and It’s All In Your Head

June 4, 2013 By 30 Comments
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by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love Joy Feminism Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 72-73 Now that we’re finally finished with Debi’s scare tactics, we get another anecdote from the early years of Debi and Michael’s marriage.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Summer of 2013?

June 4, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Jay Younts of Shepherd Press If you have taught your children to honor and obey God, be assured that your instruction will be assaulted by education, government, and the entertainment culture.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Fear of Any Government?

May 31, 2013 By 19 Comments
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by Vaughn Ohlman from Perservero News – Imaginary Money and Fairy-Tale Business Take the minimum wage… one of the many issues that is destroying the South African economy. The government thinks that by telling people that they have to pay people more, that, somehow, people will make more. But in reality

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Quoting Quiverfull: Laboring Not in Vain?

May 16, 2013 By 4 Comments
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by Michelle Kauenhofen of Above Rubies Womens Daily Devotionals DEAR FELLOW MOTHER, When you feel worn out, exhausted, taken advantage of, under appreciated and not acknowledged, remember this.

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Quoting Quiverfull: The Death of the Family?

April 22, 2013 By 9 Comments
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posted by Jennie Chancey at Ladies Against Feminism “The Family Economy in Crisis”. Originally written by Kevin Swanson for Vision Forum Ministries The family is dying a slow and miserable death in the West. Ultimately, it is a failure of the Christian faith and life that brought about our present

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