by Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin of Visionary Daughters “How to be a Better Daughter to Your Father” – June 17, 2008 Don’t panic if your father makes a decision you don’t agree with. Have faith in God’s ability to lead through your father,
Quoting Quiverfull: Trusting Your Father’s Decisions?
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Daughter of the Patriarchy: Ripping the Moorings Part 2
by Sierra My mother is stubborn. My father jokes that it’s the Polish in her (and me) that makes us clutch ideas so hard they fuse with our fingers and become permanent fists of stony resolve. This tenacity kept my mother with my father, kept her in church despite the disapproval of other women, kept [...]
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Snipped! Part 6: The Fun Little Church
by Incongruous Circumspection Bill Gothard’s weekly marriage class was run by Pastor John Hartzell and his young protégé, Chuck Raichert in a little Independent Fundamental Baptist Church in Bloomington, Minnesota. Normandale Baptist was the name. The seminar was called Rebuilder’s and was all about loving Jesus Christ so much that your husband or wife simply [...]
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Raised Quiverfull: Questioning, Q. 1
by Libby Anne Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering questions about their experiences. How were you first exposed to “mainstream” American culture? [...]
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Justice is No Lady: Chapter 11: Jack, the One I Lost
by Tess Willoughby When Jack was just a baby, Nate had rejected Jack’s personality, and had set out to beat and berate it out of him. When Jack reached middle school age, or perhaps a little bit before, the seeds that his father had planted suddenly sprouted. Jack began to come unraveled. “Something is wrong [...]
Filed Under: Accountability, Alienation, Anxiety, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Bounded Choice, Child Abuse, Child Training, Control, Depression, Domestic Abuse, Drinking the Koolaid, Fear tactics, Honoring Parents, Issues, Justice Is No Lady, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Motherhood, Mr. Command Man, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Patriarchy, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Quiverfull Topics, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Sibling Relationships, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, Toxic Relationships, Triggers, Umbrella of Authority Tagged With: Accountability, Alienation, Anxiety, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Bounded Choice, child abuse, Child Training, Control, depression, Domestic Abuse, Drinking the Koolaid, Fear tactics, Honoring Parents, Issues, Justice Is No Lady, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, meek and quiet spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Motherhood, Mr. Command Man, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, patriarchy, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Quiverfull Topics, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Sibling Relationships, spiritual abuse, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, toxic relationships, Triggers, Umbrella of Authority 16 Comments
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