Jack Schaap: Details Emerge

March 14, 2013 By 2 Comments
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From the Post-Tribune   In another letter, he talks about how he wanted their time together for three days — which appears to reference their time in Michigan — to show her how much she matters to Jesus Christ. The girl

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Jack Schaap: Jesus Approves of Adultery?

March 14, 2013 By 5 Comments
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We’re coming up on the sentencing of First Baptist Church of Hammond, Indiana’s ex-head pastor Jack Schaap. I believe it’s a week from tomorrow. This morning coming out of station RTV6 comes word that the Feds have released some new information on the

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Suggestions to End Clergy Abuse

January 16, 2013 By 3 Comments
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Posted today at Richmond Outreach Center Recovery Group: Good advice for any church or organization. The following recommendations were made by a former member of the First Baptist Church of Hammond Indiana for consideration

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Jack Schaap Asked For Reduced Sentence – The Devil Made Him Do It

January 5, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Calulu Apparently IFB pastor Jack Schaap is asking that he receive a special reduced sentence below the federally mandated minimum of ten years. Why? Because he’s claiming that the stress of running his mega-church First Baptist Church of Hammond, Indiana combined with falling financial resources  put him in a

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Jack Schaap: The Mess at First Baptist Church in Chicago Magazine

December 10, 2012 By 15 Comments
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by Calulu The most popular post here at NLQ isn’t necessarily a Quiverfull story but one that examines how the Independent Baptist Churches and pastors seem to have a problem with a high percentage of their leadership straying into sexual abuse of women and children. It named two known IFB pastors that ended up

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