Who Was That Masked Man?: Food Insecurity

June 6, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by Calulu Last night as I was channel surfing I ran across a political show that was talking about how Congressman Steven Fincher

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Quoting Quiveringfull: Standing With God

April 30, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Dr. Bob Jones Sr or Bob Jones University So you want to know where a man stands with God? You ha e only to ask him one question: What do you think of this university {BJU} Comments open below

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CTBHHM: One Ugly Hillbilly

March 29, 2013 By 7 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 27-28 Throughout her book, Debi’s attitude toward women is bizarre. In this passage, Debi tells a story to illustrate her point about the importance

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Leaving Part 2

November 23, 2012 By Leave a Comment
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by Mari My mom was one of the people who was in charge of the home school group that we were part of. I don’t know if she had an official title, but she and a friend would get together and have planning sessions and make arrangements for meetings and field trips and things. I [...]

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Burqas Anyone?

September 18, 2012 By 18 Comments
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by Calulu My daughter and I had a very unexpected thing happen on Friday night. We were in a local fast food joint picking up dinner and ran afoul of a group. Laura had shown up unexpectedly along with her brother and his two best friends. I’d only cooked for my husband and myself so [...]

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