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Baptist Taliban Part 2

June 15, 2012 By Suzanne Calulu 2 Comments

by Cindy Foster FAMILY AS NEIGHBORS At first we lived in duplexes right next door to each other. Then, both families jointly purchased five acres, divided them equally and each built a house on their two and a half acres. As more children came, naturally there would be conflicts between theirs and ours which produced [...]

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Millipede: Part 8

June 14, 2012 By Suzanne Calulu 9 Comments

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by Millipede The next couple of years were what I would call the “golden years” of Patriarchy. By this I mean that we were living the Patriarchal dream, with the husband “leading” and providing and the wife keeping the home and being submissive. It was the apex of our journey; we were finally living the [...]

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Submission and Prison Cells: Part 1

June 12, 2012 By Suzanne Calulu 5 Comments

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by Melissa Permission To Live Almost five years ago, I was a devout conservative Christian. I had been married over two years, had a toddler Ms Action running around and a baby Ms Drama due in a few months. I loved my spouse beyond what I had ever thought love was when we first got [...]

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Baptist Taliban Part 1 – Introduction

June 12, 2012 By Suzanne Calulu 13 Comments

by Cindy Foster Editors note: Please welcome Baptist Taliban to our Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network! She will be writing a new series for us. REASONS In order to add some context to the articles I have written on this blog I want to designate a page to summarize our story from beginning to end. [...]

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Who Was That Masked Man? Part 6

June 3, 2012 By Suzanne Calulu 10 Comments

by Calulu When we last left the Smiths they had reconciled and were determined to make everyone be best friends forever again. Nothing doing. Things ratchet up a few new levels of tension. 9/11 happens. I’m sitting in front of the television having coffee and folding clothes when CNN shows the coverage of the first [...]

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Vyckie Garrison started No Longer Quivering to tell the story of her “escape” from the Quiverfull movement.

Over time, NLQ has developed into a valuable resource of information regarding the deceptions and dangers of the Quiverfull philosophy and lifestyle. Several more former QF adherents are now contributing their stories to NLQ and our collective voice makes these Quiverfull warnings impossible to dismiss or ignore.

NLQ is a gathering place for women escaping and recovering from spiritual abuse.

Listen to Vyckie's Story now:

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