Quoting Quiverfull: Love is a Choice?

March 9, 2013 By 5 Comments
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Voddie Baucham from his book “Family Driven Faith” Many of us have completely divorced the concept of love from the mind and will. We speak of the heart as though it were the opposite of the mind and the will when in fact the mind and will are precisely

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Raised Quiverfull: Questioning Q. 3

June 15, 2012 By Leave a Comment

by Libby Anne (and friends) Cross posted from  Love, Joy, Feminism. Raised Quiverfull Introduction — Questioning Summary Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering [...]

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Raised Quiverfull: Questioning, Q. 2

June 11, 2012 By Leave a Comment

by Libby Anne Raised Quiverfull Introduction — Questioning Summary Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering questions about their experiences.     What first [...]

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Join the Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network!

June 7, 2012 By 4 Comments

About the Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network Welcome Spiritual Abuse Survivors! We are here to assist one another to amplify the voices of spiritual abuse survivors by growing blog readership and raising awareness of the issue of spiritual abuse. Bloggers who wish to join the Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network must meet the following criteria: [...]

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About The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network

June 7, 2012 By 5 Comments
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The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network is a project of Vyckie Garrison and the guest writers at No Longer Quivering. The network began when Vyckie noticed that NLQ forum member, Libby Anne, seemed to be doing a lot of processing of her quiverfull experience through frequent posts and comments. She encouraged Libby Anne to write her [...]

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