Happily Abused

Can you say, "Stockholm Syndrome'?

Trigger warning: Christian woman's advice to abused wives reads like a handbook for ascetic self-mortification. How to Use a Woman's Faith & Trust to Make Her a Willing Accomplice to Her Own Abuseby Vyckie GarrisonAfter stumbling across yet another piece of alarmingly dangerous advice for abused women of faith titled, Surviving Emotional Abuse Six Steps by Christian author, Darcy Ingraham, I am wishing I had more middle fingers with which to express my extreme irritation. Ack!I will try to calm down long enough to use my words rather than profane gestures to talk about spiritual abuse.To begin with the author assumes that only those husbands who abandon their faith … [Read more...]

Debunking the Fourteen Basic Needs of a Marriage: Part d – Husbands are Omniscient and Wives MUST Give Sex Husbands

by Incongruous CircumspectionIn Part 1c, we learned that men are so fragile, anything a woman does that is not exactly what the bloke is expecting will lead to his demise. Let's finish looking at the first basic need of a husband. *****[Seek your husband’s advice first. A wife should demonstrate loyalty to her husband’s wishes, goals, and standards. Therefore, when a need arises, you should seek your husband’s guidance and counsel first, especially in regard to family issues, rather than seeking advice from other family members and friends.]When Kristine and I first met, I had swallowed this idea whole. I knew all the answers to life and, better yet, knew how to find them in all … [Read more...]

NLQ Quote Worthy 1

Call me crazy, if you like, for suggesting this possibility... but it seems to me more likely that it is a woman's "indiscriminate subservience" to a man which gelds him over time, rather than her spirited, loving, challenge of him.Authoritarian patriarchy mass-produces nutless weakling men... bitter, abused women... and scarred, emotionally-deformed children, and ought be abandoned as the utter, perverse failure that it is known to be.~comment by "Pj" on Alternet article, How I Escaped the "Biblical Family Values" Nightmare That Drives Perry, Bachmann, and Tea Party PoliticsDiscuss on the NLQ forum.  Comments are also open below. Feel free to post any good snippets you come across he … [Read more...]


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