Raised Quiverfull: Living the Life Part 1

June 25, 2012 By 1 Comment

by Libby Anne Raised Quiverfull Introduction — Questioning Summary Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering questions about their experiences.     Question 1: [...]

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Hey Christian Girl!

June 19, 2012 By 4 Comments
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Last night someone pointed NLQ to this great Tumblr account – Hey Christian Girl. If cheesy Christian-speak pickup lines trigger you then I would not visit the link. It’s funny and it’s sad at the same time because I can so hear these things coming out of the mouths of various young Christian guys I’ve [...]

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Pornography and the Fundy

June 19, 2012 By 17 Comments
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by Calulu (Warning, possibly triggering and some of the links are of the not safe for work variety.) Recently I started thinking about pornography. Not that I was partaking it in, it’s never done anything for me. I might as well be looking at a pile of rutabagas or dirty socks. It is what it [...]

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Raised Quiverfull: Questioning, Q. 1

June 7, 2012 By 2 Comments

by Libby Anne Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering questions about their experiences. How were you first exposed to “mainstream” American culture? [...]

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Introducing, Raised Quiverfull!

May 28, 2012 By 5 Comments
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by Libby Anne Nine young adults who were raised in families involved in the Christian Patriarchy and Quiverfull movements have come together here to answer questions about their upbringing, their questioning, and their transition to lives in the normal world. Ranging in age from their early twenties to their early thirties, all have questioned and [...]

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