Laughter is Good Medicine: Every Sperm is Sacred

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With so many Quiverfull leaders, conservative law makers, Evangelicals and others wanting to redefine rape, conception parameters, tiny babies in the uterus from birth control and controlling every single aspect of reproductive … [Read more...]

News Links – August 24, 2012

Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Birth Control, Buddy System, Child Training, Complimentarianism, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Doug Phillips, Fallen From Grace by Bruce Gerencser, Hot Topics, Hyles-Anderson College, Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches (IFB), Jack Hyles, Jack Schaap, Mega Churches, Mutuality, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Reviews, Pro-Life, Psalm 127 / Quiverfull: Be Fruitful & Multiply, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull Discernment Websites, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Topics, SASBN, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Vision … [Read more...]

Why Quiverfull Moms Do Not and Cannot Love Their Bodies

by VyckieI beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. (Romans 12:1)For the past week and a half, NLQ has been presenting the excellent material in Tapati's Body Image Workshop.  As I've read through the posts and all the related comments on the NLQ forum, I've been thinking about how the Body Image issue is incredibly relevant to No Longer Quivering and the stories here of women who've left the Quiverfull philosophy and lifestyle.In theory, virtuous Quivefull moms do not have body image issues.  I say this because, of course, there is no "you" in qivering ~ in o … [Read more...]

Quiverfull in a Nutshell

Michelle says, Never enough babies!What the quiverfull movement doesn't have is satisfaction. It casts itself as only looking for "blessing" but in many cases it seems to go far beyond that to reach the collectors' mentality which bespeaks more of greed, grabbing for every child you can, and if you don't do that, you fail spiritually. It's an insidious teaching and my only regret in accepting my atheism is knowing that there will be no ultimate reckoning where those who promoted and gained from this teaching do not face what they have created and see it for what it really is. The quiverful movement claims to welcome every child, but it never allows you to be happy with just what you have … [Read more...]

God gave them brains too

Why Michelle Duggar might not be done yet by VyckieThe Internet is buzzing with news of the premature birth of Josie Brooklyn Duggar ~ Michelle's 19th child, who was delivered via emergency c-section last Thursday at only 25 weeks gestation and weighing a mere 1 lb. 6 oz. Kate Harding, at Salon.com pointedly asks the question of the hour: Baby No. 19 is born extremely premature; will Michelle's god ever give the poor woman a break?  Of interest to me, is a comment on Kate's article: God gave them brains too ~ So why don't they use them instead of their reproductive organs? Trust in God but use your head, otherwise you are insulting God by behaving as if you have no choice in the ma … [Read more...]

Vyckie's Tour de Crap: Quiverfull and the Life of the Mother

The recent "Born to Breed" episode of "Secret Lives of Women" has attracted quite a bit of attention from practicing Quiverfull women ~ and several QF/P blogs are discussing my story and NLQ.  I appreciate that quite a few of these blog commenters are giving thoughtful consideration to the message here. But many others are insisting that my Quiverfull "conviction" was a burdensome form of legalism rather than a true calling from the Lord.  It is frustrating to read their comments as these women dismiss my Quiverfull experience as irrelevant by concluding that what we were doing in our family was not the same heartfelt, Spirit-led decision based on our sincere love for the Lord and our desir … [Read more...]

Michelle Duggar is expecting her 19th child

by VyckieMichelle Duggar with her children after the birth of baby #18The news at People.com is that the Duggar family is joyously anticipating the arrival of their newest baby in the spring."I love all of this, it is so fun," says Michelle. "Anna and I will have babies five months apart."According to the article, there are "no health concerns" for 42-year-old Michelle.  "Some women are made to have babies, and Michelle is to the nth degree," ob-gyn Amy Sarver told PEOPLE in December. "She is in terrific health without any strain on her uterus."So Michelle Duggar is "made to have babies" ~ huh?Of course, a seemingly logical question for those who are considering the quiverfull … [Read more...]

Unassisted Bathtub Births and Quiverfull

Here's the FOX 59 report which includes a portion of the interview that I did in Minneapolis:  Discuss this post on the NLQ forums! … [Read more...]

Dear Carri ~ an open letter from one traumatized "mom of many" to another

by VyckieI was recently interviewed by a Minnesota news station in relation to the sad case of Carri Chmielewski ~ a "quiverfull" mother whose planned unassisted home birth of baby #9 ended tragically.As one who has been in similar high-risk situations with three of my pregnancies ~ I wrote a piece expressing my initial reaction (sickened and mortified) to the news that Carri's baby boy had died due to an amniotic fluid embolism (AFE) ~ a situation which might not have developed had she sought competent medical treatment earlier in her pregnancy when she first suspected she might be carrying twins.During the interview, I was asked, "What would you want to say to Carri?" OMG ~ I had … [Read more...]

Vyckie's Tour de Crap: A Change of Heart

Are these all yours? No ~ not all ~ Angel was at the zoo when this picture was taken yesterday at the park ~ so one of them is missing ;-)I've been thinking that now would be a good time to add our "reversal testimony" to my Tour de Crap ~ since I am to the part in my story when the babies started coming ... and coming ... and coming. Plus ~ Mother's Day is coming up so that seems like an appropriate opportunity to tell how it is that, although I had determined as a child that I would never have any children, I ended up as a mother to seven kids. (And in case you're worried that I'm not happy about all these children, please read this.)I originally wrote this testimony about six months … [Read more...]


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