Quoting Quiverfull: Winning Your Father’s Heart?

May 21, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin from Visionary Daughters – “Visionary Daughters Interviewed” We see a particular need for girls to build better relationships with their fathers, as the effects of this relationship spill over into so many other areas of their lives — they way they view God, the way they relate to men, [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Childish Homeschooler Syndrome Part 2

March 8, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin at Visionary Daughters Is growing up in a Christian home an advantage to us, or a disadvantage? We pointed out in our last article that children from Christian homes are beneficiaries of many advantages. The danger is when we let

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Quoting Quiverfull: Male Friends?

December 29, 2012 By 12 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Raised Quiverfull: Questioning, Q. 2

June 11, 2012 By Leave a Comment

by Libby Anne Raised Quiverfull Introduction — Questioning Summary Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering questions about their experiences.     What first [...]

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Raised Quiverfull: Introductory Questions

June 2, 2012 By 3 Comments

by Libby Anne Welcome to Raised Quiverfull! Nine young adults who grew up in the Christian Patriarchy and Quiverfull movements have come together to answer a series of questions about their experiences. All of these young adults have since questioned and left these ideologies and have chosen their own life paths. The goal of the [...]

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