Created To Need A Help Meet: Part 6 Contrasting The Types (Force Yourself To Listen To Your Wife’s Concerns)

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by Aletha cross posted from her blog Yllom Mormonpp 134-136We are finishing up the chapter on contrasting the three types of men. More specifically, Michael tells us how to fix broken marriages.Text is in purple. … [Read more...]

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Created To Need A Help Meet: Part 5 – Contrasting The Types (The Wives)

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by Aletha cross posted from her blog Yllom Mormonp 133-134Today we are comparing how the different types of men treat their wives, and what they expect of them. ComparedMr. Command needs a lady to serve him. Mr. Visionary needs a lady to talk with him. Both Command and Visionary need their ladies to admire them. A Steady man needs a lady to walk beside him, a counterpart. She needs to know that is her role. She needs to know how she can become his colleague in life. Mr. Steady will need to find ways she can become his functioning help meet. As his help meet she really NEEDS to be getting things done. Alright. Let me be very clear. People do not deserve to be served by others. … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Women Have No Say in Parenting Styles or if Their Husband is an Addict?

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by Larry Solomon from Biblical Gender Roles – 10 Reasons Christian Couples Should NOT See Marriage Counselors as always linked through Do Not Link for your safety and the admin’s sanity.Editor's note: Again Larry leaves wives no 'outs' or options unless the behavior is illegal. Thankfully this is the final bit of his thoughts on controlling his slave, err, wife. … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Man Controls EVERYTHING!

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by Larry Solomon from Biblical Gender Roles – 10 Reasons Christian Couples Should NOT See Marriage Counselors as always linked through Do Not Link for your safety and the admin’s sanity.Editor's note: We're continuing down Larry Solomon's countdown of irrational toxic reasons why marriage counseling is not needed. Today it's all about the man being God and deciding every thing. … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: If Your Husband Is A Yeller Just Suck It Up With No Complaining?

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by Larry Solomon from Biblical Gender Roles - 10 Reasons Christian Couples Should NOT See Marriage Counselors as always linked through Do Not Link for your safety and the admin's sanity.Editor's note: This piece is just a buffet of crazy toxic marriage advice it's going to take a few days to unpack the most harmful nonsensical bits. Today he's claiming that a husband that yells at you is no reason to run to the counselor at all. I don't know, sounds pretty abusive to me. One of my cats cannot stand anyone raising their voices around him, he was abused as a kitten and at 7 years old still reacts. It's abusive to him. How can it not also be abusive to a child or a woman? We'll be posting … [Read more...]

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Created To Need A Help Meet: Part 4 Contrasting The Types (Every Man Will Lose His Wife–Unless He Follows Michael’s Advice)

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by Aletha cross posted from her blog Yllom Mormonp 131-132We are still contrasting the three types of men. Today, though, we're going into depth about the weaknesses and strengths of Mr. Command, the Visionary, and Mr. Steady. Michael even makes some decent points. Text is in purple … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: No Man Can Correct Another Man In Front Of His Family?

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by Larry Solomon of Biblical Gender Roles - 10 Reasons Christian Couples Should NOT See Marriage Counselors and as always safely linked through Do Not LinkEditor's note: In this bit it seems like Larry thinks that any other man correcting a man in front of his wife and family is somehow cutting off the scoldee's testicles if I'm parsing this right. I don't know, if you were doing something so toxic that it was having a deleterious affect on your family wouldn't you want the opinion of a highly trained professional so that you could make needed adjustments to stop hurting your family? … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Your Husband Doesn’t Love You Anymore Until You Give Him Your Whole Body?

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by Larry Solomon from Biblical Gender Roles - Why Doesn't My Husband Love Me Anymore? and as usual linked through Do Not Link to keep Larry's overweening ego in check. Red highlighting and bolding from the original by Larry.Editor's note: This long post of Larry's is a rationalization as to why guys like him don't hold hands, or shower you with flowers and compliments or treat you the same way after they marry you. Larry is chock full of wretchedly vile advice that you could do to get a little better treatment again, without putting any onus or responsibility on the husband. … [Read more...]

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Created To Need A Help Meet – Part 3 Contrasting The Types (Psychic Michael Knows All)

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by Aletha cross posted from her blog Yllom Mormonp 130-131Last time we read a story about Debi going to a doctor's office, and applying the "foolproof" techniques of identifying type to relate to two different doctors. Today, we're continuing this story. Well, I say continuing this story, but really, Michael starts extrapolating about the docs. This has to be the most blatant use of his prophetic powers yet. In fact, I would say this rivals some of Debi's famous knowing-everything-about-everyone judgments. I hope you're excited. I know I am! … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Submit Kindly Every Single Day?

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by Nancy Campbell from Above Rubies - All The Days Of My LifeEditor's note: Nancy is running out of ways to claim you must be submissive OR ELSE! She is telling us that our attitude and feelings must be positive towards the husband every single day. Is that even humanly possible? Denying your own thoughts and emotions is so unhealthy! … [Read more...]

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