NLQ FAQ: Why Do You Dwell in the Past ~ Why Don't You Just Forgive and Move On?

by VyckieQ: Why Do You Dwell in the Past ~ Why Don't You Just Forgive and Move On?Those of us who are sharing our stories of physical, emotional and spiritual abuse at No Longer Quivering are often accused of being bitter and angry.I frequently receive emails encouraging me to "move on" ~ one writer told me, "You're out! Good for you.  You deserve to be happy, so quit dwelling on past abuse and live and enjoy your life fully in the present."I understand this ~ and when Laura chose to stop writing her story here at NLQ because she didn't want to rehash all the painful memories of abuse ~ and she saw that it was having a harmful effect on her kids ~ and she married Richard and wanted to … [Read more...]