Talking to Kids About Death

shutterstock_162957713

My husband's grandmother caught Influenza A at the end of last year, and has been in the hospital for a few weeks now.  The doctors have told us to expect her passing any day.  This is hard for my husband, for his family, and has been especially difficult for our children - her great-grandchildren.  Though she has been unable to care for herself for some time now, her family rallied around her, and she has been a constant presence in my mother-in-law's home.  They live a block away from us, and w … [Read more...]

Haunted Time

photo courtesy of shutterstock shutterstock.com

By C. B. CabeenMy oldest child turns five this month, and I've been looking back at my journals from the first two weeks after she was born.  I haven't seen a lot of postpartum writing I resonate with, so I wanted to share a couple journal excerpts related to Samhain.  I've edited them to connect pieces and make the images less fragmentary.Where was I this October when the new grass greened?  I was incubating at home with my freshly born baby, who sprang out five or six days after th … [Read more...]

5 ways to keep the family story alive so kids can thrive

photo courtesy of shutterstock shutterstock.com

Research shows that sharing family stories boosts kids' self-esteem and sense of control in their lives. Knowing the family narrative makes kids happier and more resilient because they know their place in the family.As Bruce Feiler wrote in the New York Times: "The single most important thing you can do for your family may be the simplest of all: develop a strong family narrative."Good news -- we Pagans excel at constructing and sharing narratives, and we especially find opportunities to … [Read more...]

August Link Round-Up: Linking generations through milk, blood, magic, and mentoring

photo courtesy of the author

At the end of each month I look back over Facebook and Twitter to review the conversations we've had and the resources we've shared, and I compile the very best all in one blog post.August included celebrating World Breastfeeding Week and offering our congratulations to Molly Remer on her publication of Womanrunes.We also talked about Pagan groups raising funds to help unaccompanied minors who are entering the U.S.And as usual, we read some great articles around the web at the int … [Read more...]

Where Babies Come From: A Heathen View

photo courtesy of the author

This month, Pagan Families is talking about where babies come from - what us bloggers believe about souls, birth, and how they all fit together.  For Heathens, it can get a bit complicated.  Some believe in true reincarnation, where souls of those who have passed on are placed in unborn children (often in the same family line) to live again.  Some believe that each new child is a completely new and unique being.  I think my view fits somewhere in the middle.In Heathenry, many believe that a p … [Read more...]

What Makes a Family – Branches and Roots

Photo by Larissa Holland used under a creative commons license

This month, Pagan Families is hosting a discussion on "what makes a family?", exploring the many different approaches to parenting and family in our community.  I have always loved the metaphor of the family tree.  I was raised with a strong sense of family; not just our own immediate circle, but great-aunts and uncles and cousins twice removed, playing with children whose last names branched out from ours three or four generations ago.  When I was in elementary school, a great aunt and uncle of … [Read more...]

Pregnancy, Childbirth, and your Ancestors

photo courtesy of the author

by Molly KhanIt wasn't until I became pregnant with my third child that I began to consider the more spiritual aspects of childbirth.  It helped that around that time I was becoming more involved in and more serious about my Paganism, delving beyond High Day and Full Moon observances and creating a personal, daily practice.  Pregnancy, and parenting my other two children, was a huge part of my life, and so it naturally figured largely in the deities I connected to and the practice I was d … [Read more...]

Wednesday Wisdom: Ancestors

By Tomascastelazo [GFDL (http://www.gnu.org/copyleft/fdl.html) or CC-BY-SA-3.0-2.5-2.0-1.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

A weekly Wednesday Wisdom post -- two or three quotes on a theme related to Paganism and childbearing, inviting us to meditate.  This week in honor of Samhain, we observe how our descendants and our ancestors are intimately linked through us. "The dead are our friends and family, our ancestors, who gave us life. We call them our 'beloved dead.'" - Starhawk, Diane Baker, & Anne Hill in Circle Round  "I feel deeply connected with mothers everywhere. A million stand behind me, … [Read more...]


CLOSE | X

HIDE | X