Why Kids Need Touch, and How Consent Culture Helps Them Get It

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This month's Pagan Families Flash Point is on sexuality. How do we foster healthy attitudes about sex in our kids?First, let’s be clear on what we mean by “kids.” For adolescents, sex and sexual identity are important issues, and adolescents themselves are in a special state, no longer children but not yet adults. The needs of adolescents for education and support around these issues are complex and deserve their own post (or really, their own book!).So, for the purposes of this post, let … [Read more...]

All Acts of Love and Pleasure – Fostering Sensuality in our Kids

By David K from Dallas, USA ([1]) [CC-BY-SA-2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

All acts of love and pleasure are my rituals– in the sacred invocation by Doreen Valiente, the goddess calls us to recognise that pleasure and love are acts of divine relationship. This is the heart of a Pagan attitude towards sexuality. Pagan sexual morals are notably different to mainstream religious teachings on the subject. Our model of sacred sexuality is fluid. Even in the most rigid balance-based traditions of Paganism (those that see the male/female balance as crucial to worldly w … [Read more...]

Picture Books for Pagan Families: Beltane

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By Meg Yardley Beltane, or May Day, celebrates the fertility of the earth, the diversity of our community, and the joys of living in a body.  Traditions for this holiday that are especially fun with children including gathering flowers to make wreaths and garlands; getting up at dawn to bathe your face in the dew; and dancing the Maypole. Here are some recipes for May Day, and I also love this piece on "How to celebrate Beltane with a 4-year-old”.In honor of Beltane, you may want to seek ou … [Read more...]

Abstinence-only sex ed is against my religion

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By SunweaverMy eldest daughter is starting seventh grade and with that comes the "Teen Living" class, which includes learning about peer pressure, interpersonal relationships, and a five-day sex ed course. By and large, I'm not opposed to this kind of thing. Becoming a teenager is difficult business and when schools pay attention to that fact, it can potentially make that transition much, much easier. I'm not even opposed to sex ed in school. It's important for young men and women to know … [Read more...]

Wednesday Wisdom: Sexuality

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A weekly Wednesday Wisdom post with two or three profound or beautiful thoughts on a theme related to Paganism and childbearing. An invitation to meditate or just to pause a moment and consider.Sex, life force, creativity, fertility...  "Sexuality is a manifestation of the creative life force. Even if conception is not intended or achieved through a sex act, our sexual drive exists biologically in large part for the purpose of creating a new person: something quite significant in a … [Read more...]


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