Regret Redux (Day 2)

My book If Only: Letting Go Of Regret released a year ago. I've been humbled and gratified by the wonderful response from readers and reviewers. A number have told me the book helped them recognize, confront and release their own long-standing regrets. This week, in celebration of God's faithfulness, I'm re-running some of my favorite posts from the last year on the topic of regret.What would a birthday party be without presents? Click here before Friday, June 26th at midnight Central time to … [Read more...]

Regret Redux (Day 1)

My book If Only: Letting Go Of Regret released a year ago. I've been humbled and gratified by the wonderful response from readers and reviewers. A number have told me the book helped them recognize, confront and release their own long-standing regrets. This week, in celebration of God's faithfulness, I'm re-running some of my favorite posts from the last year on the topic of regret.What would a birthday party be without presents? Click here before Friday, June 26th at midnight Central time … [Read more...]

Sex, Drugs, and Getting Old

The moment might strike while antiquing; their eyes meet over a mid-century modern divan, and the sparks fly. Both middle-aged partners are ready for some empty-nester afternoon delight… thanks to the pharmaceutical industry. That’s the picture we get from the ads for erectile dysfunction medications such as Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra that pepper late-night TV programs. A new batch of commercials for the drug Osphena target women who experience painful intercourse, or dyspareunia, due to the ho … [Read more...]

A Positive Women’s Ministry Story

Some of the women of Digging Deeper.

An update from the Women's Ministry front:I've been at pastel tables featuring tea cups and doilies, making small talk with church ladies. I've gone to women's "retreats" that were nothing more than glorified teachfests with a side of craft projects, teary testimonies and awkward ice-breaker activities. I've been a part of women's Bible study groups that have been a reader response echo chamber: "What do you think this verse says?"/"I don't know. What do you think it says?"/"The notes in my … [Read more...]

Taken By A Trip

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People don’t take trips, trips take people. – John Steinbeck As we returned to Chicago after two and a half strange and grueling days that began with a knock on our 6th floor hotel door in Haifa and ended with us staggering out of the airport in a stupor when we finally landed in Chicago, I realized that the trip that perhaps God most wanted me to take occurred during the final four hours.The journey began with those door-knockers: two young women who were dressed in what I'll call here a fe … [Read more...]

Bring It To Light

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My husband and I left the US for Israel on May 21. In the span of the 10 days we've been here, I've been following a string of excruciating stories from the Evangelical world that have included the exposure of incest/abuse/coverup happening within America's favorite Bill Gothard poster family, the Duggars; the tale of legalistic spiritual abuse of a woman who divorced her pedophile husband by the leadership of Village Church, pastored by Acts 29 head Matt Chandler (who did offer an apology this w … [Read more...]

Review: Lessons In Belonging From A Church-Going Commitment Phobe

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I used to believe there was something deeply flawed about me because I've been a part of a number of different churches over the last four decades. Between the pastors who shamed people for being church-hopping consumers and some congregants I've met along the way who were able to stick with a church for life, no matter how dysfunctional it was, I chalked up my own rolling-stone resume to some deeply flawed part of my character. Not any more. This survey was an eye-opener for me. I discovered … [Read more...]


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