Cultivating enjoyment…

As we enter September, and schedules change, I offer a few words about being intentional in our cultivation of that which will nourish.  Enjoy. 

It happened between graduating from high school and starting college.  I was working at a camp and the staff went out one night for pizza.  It was one of the those places that hide all the ingredients under the cheese.  When the pizza came, I took a big, unexamined bite.

“Wow!  That’s tremendous!  What’s on this pizza?”

“Pepperoni, Sausage, and mushrooms” came the answer from across the table.  And that’s how mushrooms moved from a source of fear, disgust, and disdain, to a source of pleasure in my life. They snuck in, covert, under cover of cheese.

Now that we’re adults, less things sneak into our lives.  We’ve the freedom to make choices regarding food, time use, entertainment, recreation, spiritual life.  We’re free, but if we’re not careful, we’ll make the same choices over and over, and create deep grooves of habit, which will stunt our growth.  The way to avoid these ditches of habit is simple:

Intentionally Cultivate Enjoyment of “the good”.  Here’s what I mean: [Read more...]

Sensuality and beauty—and why they matter

“Love of beauty is taste.  The creation of beauty is art.” —Emerson

“One thing I have asked from the LORD, that I shall seek: That I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, To behold the beauty of the LORD And to meditate in His temple.” —Psalm 27:4

My oldest daughter lives in the Shire.  Kandern, in the Germany Black Forest, and the surrounding villages, are populated by people tending small farms, artists, and retirees.  Today we hiked up to a small castle ruins, and last night took a walking tour through the village.  The combination of being away from my day to day leadership responsibilities coupled with my newness to this part of the world combine to heighten my senses.  The landscape and the architecture captivate me.  Throw in a symphony of birds as music score, and we’re walking through a sensual feast.

“Sensuality” is a word that’s looked at with suspicion among Christians because it’s used negatively each of the four times it appears in the Bible.  We’re afraid of being seduced by our feelings, and as a result we become afraid of our actual feelings. Our fear of “the abuse of the thing” leads to a “fear of the thing,” which can, I’m afraid, lead to a “loss of the thing.” It would be like being afraid of becoming an alcoholic, and responding to that fear by burning vineyards to the ground. This way of thinking, this suspicion towards things that bring joy to our senses, becomes a sort of functional gnosticism, where we relegate pleasure of any kind (other than that derived from praying and reading the Bible) to a bin entitled “of this earth.” This division occurs in different ways with different people, and to varying degrees. Wherever it appears though, the affect is the same:  our capacity to both enjoy and create beauty is muted. Food becomes fuel. Sex becomes procreation, or worse, obligation. Architecture becomes shelter. Art becomes propaganda.  The world becomes gray.

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