Growing up in a Fundamental Baptist high school, I heard some ridiculous arguments against feminism. My favorite goes something like this:
Feminists secretly hate women! That’s right! They hate women, and let me tell you why! They want women to be equal to men. That means, they think women don’t need men. Feminists won’t let men hold doors open for them or pay for their dates. And they won’t let men protect them! Chivalry is DEAD because of feminists. That’s right.
Oh, and don’t forget. Feminists are also responsible for the wide availability of The Pill! Because of The Pill, men now see women as sex objects! Because men don’t have to worry about having babies, men think they can rape women left and right without suffering the consequences.
So, because of feminists, men are raping women. Also because of feminists, these women have no men to protect them from men who want to rape them! See all these problems feminists have caused?!?
I used to wonder how anyone could come to such faulty conclusions with this argument. How can these people not see that men who rape and hurt women, not feminists, are the problem?
But now when I hear these arguments, I’m not surprised. Not one bit.
I should not be surprised that some Christians believe that women need men to protect them from men, because these same Christians also believe that people need God to protect them from God.
It’s the exact same philosophy, really.
People wanted too much freedom, so instead of The Pill, they ate the forbidden fruit. And now God is mad. Now God can unleash God’s wrath on people……unless, of course, people stop trying to be so independent and put themselves under God’s leadership so that God can protect people from God’s wrath.
Inherent in both of these philosophies is fear.
According to this philosophy, women need men, not because of love.
Not because we love our friends and fathers and brothers and possible romantic partners.
But because women should be afraid of men and their uncontrollable sex drives.
Because women need men to protect them from fearsome men.
And people need God.
Not because we love God and because God loves us.
But because we should be afraid of God and God’s uncontrollable wrath.
Because people need God to protect them from the fearsome God.
It’s all about fear, but there is no fear in love. So, which is it Christians? Are we about love, or are we about fear? You can’t have both.