Scientology Parent: Attack of the Why’s – And Why I Embrace Them

At the Air & Space Museum, Figuring out how engines work.

My daughter is two and a half, and she’s well into the “attack of the Why’s”.

“Why is that car broken, daddy?”

“Why is that tractor spraying water, daddy?”

“Why did that baby do spit-up, daddy?”

“Why is the sun asleep now, daddy?”

I’ve met plenty of parents who positively dread the Whys.  Evidently, they find it annoying that their child is constantly asking them, “Why, why why?”

I don’t find it annoying at all.  I embrace it.

The explanation for such has a lot to do with my own philosophy about life.   When I went to school at the Delphian School in Oregon (likely the single best move my parents ever made for my sister & I), I was studying chemistry & physics.  A lot of what I was studying seemed inapplicable to any professions I was considering.  But, the faculty of the school very adroitly suggested that I work out for myself why I was studying it before I went any further.

After some reflection, I did end up deciding that I actually wanted to know how my world worked, and that the more I understood my surroundings, the better I felt.   I made a decision that I wanted to actually understand anything I saw around me, so that virtually nothing would be left in my surroundings that was a mystery to me.    And that’s what I want for my kids.

Application of Study Technology to Life

There’s a core piece of Scientology technology at work here.  And that’s L. Ron Hubbard’s Study Technology.  A cornerstone of such, is that in studying, one does not go past words that one does not understand.   And if you encounter them, you get them cleared up fully to where you understand them conceptually.    Go past misunderstood words & symbols, and you end up yawning, tired, blank, and end up leaving courses of study you ‘re in.   Please see this video for a further explanation of this phenomena at work.

But extend this out to everything you encounter in life – advertisements, newspaper articles, text printed in your car’s dashboard, etc.    Your car has a button that says, “Traction Control Off”.  What’s “traction control”?   How does it work?  Your car says “fuel injection” on it.  What’s that?   The lights you go past on your city street are yellowish-orange in hue.  Why’s that?   You ride on a subway with signs that say “750VDC WARNING!”  What’s that mean? How does your subway get electricity to run?

My philosophy is that you can either pass these signs & just blank out on them, and choose to not understand your world – and live in the partial fog that goes along with that, or you can actually understand the things around you.  Understanding breeds control and responsibility for your environment.

How this applies to my Parenting Philosophy

I want my children to have total control & understanding of the world around them.  I do NOT want them operating in a fog where life sort of happens around them somehow, and they’re not active, understanding participants of it.

As such, I am not shying away from bringing my daughter to a construction site to have her look at excavators & bulldozers.  It’s not that I’m trying to make her a tomboy who likes tractors – I want her to understand how houses & roads are built!  I want her to understand how airplanes fly, how engines work, how lightbulbs operate, how electricity is made, how subways run, and how food is grown.   When she’s a grown-up, and someone says that their computer is busted, I don’t want her to look at it with a foggy stare and be scared to touch it – I ‘d want her to be able to flip it over and replace the broken parts if need be.

I want my kids to end up as competent, responsible adults who can control the environment they’re in.   And that starts with understanding it.

So, while some parents might roll their eyes and tell them to get back to their video games when their kids start asking too many questions, I instead relish another opportunity to help them explore their world.  And hopefully, with each question resolved, that can be one less misunderstood word they’ve got in their environment.

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Scientology Anti-Drug Initiative

The Church published a year-in-review story on the Scientology anti-drug campaign.  It bears repeating.  It is such a serious issue, but the good news is it can be addressed effectively.

Scientology Churches joined forces with like-minded groups and individuals in 2011, reaching more than 100 million people with factual information on drugs.

The need for effective drug prevention has never been more urgent. Some 210 million people internationally consume illegal drugs—more than the populations of California, New York, the United Kingdom, Italy and Australia combined. Almost 200,000 die of drugs annually, according to the United Nations World Drug Report. In the United States, more high school students now smoke marijuana than cigarettes. Every 12 seconds, another school-age child experiments with illicit drugs for the first time, and every year, youth are exposed to these dangerous substances at younger ages.

In 2011, the Church sponsored production and distribution of more than 4.2 million drug education booklets and thousands of information packets, banners, posters and educator kits, making them available free of charge to the public.

For young people who have “heard it all” and are skeptical of scare tactics, these materials bring them face-to-face with the devastating effects of drugs.

The commander of one of the busiest police stations in Los Angeles described the value of the Truth About Drugs program in his precinct: “The educational pamphlets and videos produced by this program have been invaluable in educating the community on the negative repercussions that illegal drugs have on society. ”

A Southeastern United States county formerly ranked in the nation’s top third for accidental prescription drug overdoses, reported major improvement from the program. The county provided copies of The Truth About Drugs booklet to all its middle school students—1,500 in all. When the next report was published, not only was their county no longer ranked at the top, it was nowhere on the list.

Scientologists are dedicated to helping youth avoid the tragedy of drug abuse and addiction. More than 100 Scientology Churches and Missions on six continents carried out awareness-raising activities on June 26, the International Day against Drug Abuse and Illicit Trafficking.

American Scientologists participate in two nationwide drug and crime prevention initiatives each year—National Night Out in August and Red Ribbon Week in October—holding conferences, organizing marches, and distributing booklets in cities around the country.

In Hungary, Scientologists help organize and run in the yearly cross-country Marathon for a Drug-Free Hungary, traveling to towns and cities throughout the country to advocate drug-free living.

Dutch Scientologists take part in an annual Netherlands Anti-Drug Marathon. In 2011, their two-week course covered 382 km (237 miles).

Along the route they distribute booklets, meet with mayors and other local officials and promote their drug-free message in radio and TV interviews.

In the Czech Republic, for the past nine years Scientologists have helped organize the annual Cyclorun for a Drug-Free Czech Republic—two weeks of running and cycling through the county. In coordination with town mayors, police and other local officials, they mobilize entire communities to take a stand against drugs.

A retired Congolese businessman learned of the Truth About Drugs campaign at the Churches of Scientology for Europe in Brussels and returned to his home country to form Say No To Drugs in the Democratic Republic of the Congo. This foundation is reaching thousands with the drug-free message, making it heard throughout the country.

In the last year alone, through direct action and the Church-sponsored informational campaign, more than 100 million people were reached with the truth about drugs message.

To learn more about the drug prevention initiative sponsored by the Church of Scientology or to participate, visit the Scientology website.

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The Church of Scientology sponsors the world’s largest non-governmental drug education and prevention campaign. It has been conclusively proven that when young people are provided with the truth about drugs—factual information on what drugs are and what they do—usage rates drop commensurately.

 

Scientology-Sponsored Humanitarian Programs

A very well crafted video, in my opinion, that presents an overview of what we Scientologists do.  I believe it speaks for itself.

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Back to School

How many millions of kids returned to school this week in the U.S. alone?

More than 55,000,000 from what I’ve read.

Is school fulfilling its purpose for them?

I well remember the late 1950s when the big issue was—are Soviet kids getting a better science and math education that Americans?  This was a big problem.  After all, they beat us into space.

The curricula changes resulting did nothing to improve literacy, not to mention productivity, citizenship and character.  Yet what is education for?  To set a child up with a way to succeed in life, right?

After a lot of speculative programs and “modern” techniques, we are still way behind, ranking (internationally) 14 in reading, 25 in math and 17 in science, behind such countries as South Korea, Finland, Canada, and Japan, which are in the top five in all three.

Yet our future as a culture depends upon our ability to learn.

Education, unfortunately, is very “exam” oriented.  In an article called “Education,” L. Ron Hubbard discusses what such an orientation does to our children’s future, and offers a paradigm that would give us kids who can not only “get good grades,” but who can also think and do enough with their education to dig us out of the situations we have created (or at least failed to solve) as a nation, both internally and as part of the world community.