Scientology in Stonnington

Having grown up with a Jewish father and Catholic mother, Bernie Lowenstein turned to Scientology in 1973. Pictures: Steven Crabtree and Mark Wilson N01MP808 newsphotos.com.au Bernie Lowenstein of Melbourne, Australia is one of the Scientologists featured on the Scientology Video Channel.  The section, titled “Meet a Scientologist” is one of the most popular sections of the website.  He was featured in a local newspapter, the Stonnington Leader.  Lowenstein , raised Catholic,  grew up with a Jewish father and Catholic mother and the article describes how he first learned about Scientology and became a Scientologist.

“Struggling with his father’s death and a broken engagement, Mr Lowenstein found Scientology in 1973. ‘My father had died suddenly three years before at only 49,’ Mr Lowenstein said. ‘It was a shock, and when my fiancee dropped me I was a mess. One of my brother’s teachers gave me a book (on Scientology) and said it might help. It just made sense and I became interested from there.’”

The article also describes how Scientology helped him:  ”He credits the communication course with putting him ‘back in the driver’s seat’ in 1973. ‘It was a pivotal point for me. It was over a few weeks … a series of drills around what we call ‘auditing’ or listening. I realised I had been very introverted; my attention was focused very much on me … I had a lot of self-pity. The world wasn’t a very happy place for me but the auditing made me realise … there was hope.’”

Lowenstein describes the basic beliefs of Scientology: “humans as immortal spiritual beings; human experience extending beyond a single lifetime; and unlimited human capabilities, even if not presently realised.”

The full article can be read online.

Here is Bernie’s “Meet a Scientologist” video:

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Questions & Answers on Scientology

A while back, I was contacted on Facebook by a college student curious about my thoughts on Scientology.  I’d normally answer such directly, but as I’ve had a number of other similar questions on Digg, Twitter and other various social media venues, I figured I’d give my best shot at answering these on my blog.

So, here goes:

So, my first question really is: What is it that Scientology offers that makes it something that you wanted to make a part of your life?

This is a broad, and a pretty personal question.  Not personal meaning “private and touchy” but personal in the sense that my answer to this is likely vastly different from your answer, or the other guy’s answer.   Sort of like asking a catholic why they go to church.

But to answer you, there are a number of things Scientology offers which I like quite a bit.  They are, in no particular order:

  • Answers for day-to-day problems in life: Probably the one thing I like most about Scientology is that I’m very seldom left with lingering questions about things I run into daily in life.  Questions like, “Why did that guy just act that way to me?” or “How can I improve my relationship with my parents?” or “Can I trust that guy?” or “How can I be a better parent?” or anything like that.  In my personal experience, there has not been one question that I haven’t been able to get an answer for in Scientology – and an answer I personally am satisfied with not just one that someone tells me authoritatively and I’m meant to believe or something like that.  So, that’s one thing.
  • The Scientology community: One thing I love about being involved in Scientology is getting to hang around other Scientologists.  By and large, Scientologists are extremely good people, genuine, caring & responsible.   Scientologists I am around are genuinely interested in helping each other, helping the environment they are in, and do really give a crap about important issues that surround them.  So, that’s another thing I really enjoy and which is a real plus about being a Scientologist.
  • A reliable long-term path for enhancement: There’s another thing that I’ve come to enjoy as a Scientologist, which is that as I do various counseling actions in the religion, take various courses, etc – I am steadily handling shortcomings I feel that I have – or enhancing areas of my life that are ok but I would like to be better.  Every time, in Scientology, that I’ve put effort into handling one of these areas – be it communication skill, study speed, my own personal ethics, family, etc – each has been improved with Scientology.  The take-away I get from that is that for the future, I don’t need to be “worried” about getting worse, or about “growing old & dying and I still am [blankety-blank-random-problem]”.  I know for myself that these issues get handled in Scientology, and I can always turn to Scientology for self-improvement.

There’s a lot more I could say on the above, but I hope that gives you a sense of my personal estimation of Scientology.

Second; how long have you been a Scientologist, and how did you get started?

My parents were Scientologists starting a few years before I was born, but I won’t really say “I was born into it.”   They always made Scientology available to me, and I took my first Scientology courses when I was about 9 years old.  The first course I took was a communication course and I just loved it.  Next thing I knew I was at a summer camp, leading 300+ kids in singing camp songs with no back-off or embarrassment.  So, I was pretty happy that it worked for me, and continued in my studies of the religion since then.

Third; what do you think of the “Golden Age of Knowledge” program that recently revamped the basic LRH material?

I think it is just outstanding and quite literally one of the most important things that has happened to the religion.   Any religion (I think) can be divided into two compartments – one being the original scripture of the religion, and second being how the religion is practiced at present by its parishioners.  The way I see it, one gets a wider and wider schism between the original scripture, and what people actually practice, when average members of the religion can’t simply read and understand the basic principles of their own religion.  They can start to have a distorted picture of what their religion stands for, a picture that isn’t even remotely close to what the religion factually is.

As a case in point, take Christianity – a religion I actually have no problem with.  However, the main authoritative scripture used is the “King James Edition” of the bible – one that was authorized a full 1600 years after Christ himself was alive. Who knows what the actual original scripture was as authored by his disciples, and what their original intentions & beliefs were as to an organized religion & belief system.  It’s a debate that I think could go on for some time amongst scholars, but you won’t know the answer unless you talk to someone who was there.

So, as such, I think it of vast importance that while original manuscripts, recordings, and such are still available, that the original works and intentions of Mr. Hubbard be fully verified and released – and released with sufficient glossaries and aids so that people can actually read and understand them.

Only then can one practice Scientology and know that what you’re doing is actuallySCIENTOLOGY and not some other agreed-upon, offbeat, wacky, made-up misunderstanding that vaguely resembles Scientology.

I’ll tell you – as someone who has grown up around Scientology, and around grown-ups and little kids flinging around Scientology words which they have never actually defined, I came up with some pretty strange ideas of what some of the mostessential and basic concepts of Scientology were.  Only when I read the Scientology Basics books & listened to the lectures, did I actually realize I was so far from what these basic Scientology concepts actually were.

So, as such, I am utterly grateful for the work that was put into making these materials available.

Fourth; do you believe that Scientology is for everyone? As in, do you believe that any person who approaches it with positive intention can find a place in the Church?

There were two questions there, and in my estimation, there are two answers.  First of all, although I do absolutely believe that anyone can be helped with Scientology – that does not mean by extension “Scientology is for everyone”.  Some people really do not have anything but evil intentions for others, and live to see others harmed.  I don’t think such a person would find anything interesting in Scientology at all.  There are others who are entirely entrenched in their belief system, and who have fixed ideas they are not willing to inspect or change.  Those people will have a hard time with Scientology, too, as Scientology’s whole nature assumes that one will need to take new data, inspect it as to whether it makes sense, and then use it or reject it.

Now, your second sentence – do I believe that any person who approaches Scientology with positive intentions can find a place in the Church?  Yes, I absolutely believe that.  I think that anyone who intends to make themselves better or make others better can find their place in the Church, whether it is as an active participant, or as someone who simply uses some part of Scientology to integrate with their own religion to make their lives better.

Fifth; Is there anything more that you wished the Church of Scientology would do to improve or grow?

I have quite a bit I could say on this, but in reality, it comes down to a question of manpower.   There is a tremendous breadth in how much Scientologists and the Church of Scientology take responsibility for, and it is so much more embracive than just “growing membership” or some similar task.

There is no answer for me like, “Boy, I wish they would change [blank].”   For me, the problems the Church faces in growing come down to:

(a) Problems related to simply informing enough people about Scientology and what it is,
(b) Problems related to elements in the society which, if unhandled, make it impossible for the Church to do its job at all (i.e. drugs, immorality, crime, human rights issues banning religious freedom, etc)  and
(c) Direct attacks on the religion from vested interests who are trying to protect their cash flow (i.e. psychiatry and big pharma and their scams to market medication at every last variation in human behaviour, good or bad)

The Church needs all the help it can get in each of these.

 

Tad Reeves is Scientologist, a website systems engineer, and a parent of two adorable children.  He has a great time applying Scientology as a parent, and keeps up a website entitled ScientologyParent with tips and successes that he, his wife, and his friends have had in applying Scientology to the joys and challenges of parenting.

Family and my Descision to be a Scientologist

Scientology Cross on the Founding Church of Scientology, Washington, D.C.

A college anthropology student sent me a question from my Scientology Parent page, as she’s doing some study for her class on how family history & background can lead people to various religions.  As she was studying about Scientology, she was curious how my own family and significant events in my life led me to Scientology.   Her questions were thought-provoking on my part (an angle I’d not yet thought about) so I figured I’d post my answers here.

Question:  How does your family history relate to your quest for meaning in life? How has the history of your family led you to Scientology?

I touched on this when I was answering a similar question for another student here, but I’ll try to tackle both parts of that question.

My mother and father were both Scientologists at the time I was born, both of them becoming involved with the religion about 4 years prior.   Until I was about 9 years old, we lived out on a 10-acre farm in mid-coast Maine, in a town of about 600 people.    Our nearest Scientology organization was in Boston, about 4 hours to the south, so I didn’t spend much time in the Church as I was growing up.    I knew quite well that my parents were Scientologists, though.  My parents quite liberally used Scientology Assists with my sister and me, a practice that instantly made sense to me and which I found helpful.  Other various basic tenets of Scientology found their way into conversations & questions that I’d pose, but it wasn’t until I was about 7 that I think I started to choose my own way on Scientology a bit.

See, I did have a number of friends who went to local churches on Sundays.  They’d attend their Sunday school as well.  I do remember posing questions to my parents and to my friends about why they went to church.   The only reason I could seem to get anyone to tell me was because they were meant to go to church, and that they did that because they were Christian.   The reasoning seemed quite circular to me at the time (go to church because you’re Christian because you have to go to church) and I wasn’t really tracking – there didn’t seem to be a purpose, and it seemed to my 9-year-old logic to be a great way to waste a Sunday when you could be out building a fort in the woods.

But I did learn that when my parents went to their Scientology church, they explained to me that it was always for a purpose.  They were always there doing a specific course of study or counseling action, one which had real-world benefit and was to help them with something that could be actually articulated (even to a 9-year-old) as a tangible benefit.   I naturally asked if I could take a course too, and enrolled on a communication course.  At the end of that communication course, I honestly felt I had learned something – I had figured out how to communicate better, I figured out that I could get my point across clearly, I understood why people didn’t like being interrupted, and that it was enjoyable for both parties when you’d acknowledge when you understood what they said.

And for me, at that point, it did really set the bar for all religion.  For me, my expectation was that, in going to church, one should be going so as to achieve some benefit to one’s life that one actually desires oneself, and not because of some fuzzily-understood moral/social obligation to “go to church”.

The very next course I took in Scientology had to do with L. Ron Hubbard’s study technology.  And among all things, one thing that I learned is that the first barrier to learning anything is the idea that you already know all about it.  And if there’s someone who already “knows it all” it’s a spunky 9-year-old.   But that one stable datum has carried me through a lot of study and efforts to really understand life around me.

An interesting illustration of this:  I recently re-took that selfsame first course in Scientology – the Success Through Communication Course– doing tit together with my wife.  And the same exact principles that taught a 9 year old the value of actually communicating with parents & friends, was able to re-teach my wife and me how to communicate to each other and to our kids.   I wrote my thoughts on that here.

Question: What were some important milestones in your personal history that led to your choice to become a Scientologist?

Well, as I said above, I think that the key milestone for me which led me to being a Scientologist was where I took my first course – one that I completed at a small Portland, Maine outreach office of the Boston Scientology church.

The other reinforcing aspect I had to this was in watching my parents after taking Scientology services.  They would sometimes go down to the Scientology religious retreat in Clearwater, Florida for counseling services and to study.  Each time, when they came back, there would be this certain, difficult-to-describe, serenity or – really - certainty about their demeanor which indicated to me that they had resolved something personally, or had overcome something personally in their study, something difficult-to-describe which left them better and happier at the end.  It was something that I knew I wanted as well – I wanted to know that I had looked into myself, and found in myself what I wanted to change, and had done what I could to make that better.

At the time, as a kid, the one thing that was real to me was that I wanted to be fast as a student, and I wanted to be happy and motivated.  So, I approached a lot of my studies in Scientology with this in mind.

But later, the more I studied, the more I could see things in myself that were ripe for improvement.  My level of responsibility, my ability to absorb & understand new subjects, my ability to choose my friends and to know when relationships with others were dragging me down – these were all things I learned that I could do something about through Scientology and weren’t just things I needed to “understand I couldn’t change” or “learn to live with”.

But I’d say that by the time I was about 11, I was completely, and by my ownvery conscious decision, a Scientologist.

And, as you can see from my writing, that’s not something I’ve regretted.  :) Hopefully that answers your questions.

 

A Quiet, Wonderful Birth – Silent Birth Story

When people hear I’m a Scientologist they often ask me about Silent Birth.  Today I found this blog posting on the Scientology Parent blog that I thought illustrated what goes on very well.

This fantastic story was submitted by my Aussie friend Sonya, a fellow Scientologist who just had her first child.

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Okay so here is my story.

I was past my due date by about one and half weeks. I was freaking out a bit as they wanted to induce the labor which I was not really interested in.  Got in touch with a couple of my Scientologist friends to find out what they did, etc. I tried the natural remedies for inducing your own labor, specifically taking a long walk.  That night I went into labor!

It started around 9pm at night. The cramps were intense but I could bear them. They were like having bad period cramps. They came at first around every half hour and worked their way down to about every 7 minutes. I went to the hospital which was private and had my own room. I stayed in a bathtub most of the time during the first cramping as for me it helped. My husband was with me the whole time. At about 1:20am my water broke and then the cramping was INTENSE. I had my mother and husband there. We had told the midwife and nurses that there was to be no talking while I was having a contraction. Thankfully, they did exactly what I asked!

I had to start pushing at about 2:20am. This is when the doctor showed up. The pushing actually counter-acted the cramps which was really nice. My poor mum and husband’s hands were being crushed during my contractions but it was a good way to divert the pain!
The pushing was a lot of work but the staff there were quiet during it, as asked. Mum was there to ensure they respected my wishes, and briefed them just before I went in as a reminder. Mid one of the pushes I was told that it could go on for hours! I thought to myself that this is not going to happen.

10 minutes later out came the baby.

Everyone was quiet and the room was dim. He was put into my arms, did not cry and everyone left except my husband to give me some time with him. I fed him and then we wrapped him up and took him to bed. He was not washed and was let to sleep for some hours. It was beautiful!

We did everything covered in the HAVING A HAPPY BABY course to ensure that the birth was as easy on the child mentally and physically to the child as possible, and I’ll say it worked! He is a very active, alert and happy baby!