Ding ding! Your wife is ready. Sex Ed at the Fishers, part II

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I've recently started using Marquette, and haven't yet formed the habit of putting the monitor away in the morning. (I haven't yet formed the habit of putting anything away, to be honest, but that's a separate problem.) This means that the kids keep finding it and going, "oooOOOOOoooo, what's THIS?" Because yeah, the new style monitor kinda looks familiar:  It's confusing, Bill. We're all confused.Nevertheless, as parents, we believe in Always Answering Questions, … [Read more...]

O mother, what is it to be a man? Sex ed at the Fishers

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On the way home from a Scooby Doo birthday party, my punky little daughter suddenly says, "Mama, how do wimmin get preg-a-nent?"She is kid #7, and I honestly can't remember how much she already knows, so I start vague: "Oh, well, when a man and a woman love each other very much [shut up, that's a fine way to start this conversation!], one way they show each other that they love each other is they can put their bodies together in a very special way, and if the timing is just right, then the … [Read more...]

At Synod, Sex-Obsessed Catholic Church Finally Talks About Sex, Finally

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It is stunning that the Bishops are talking about sex! As long as you are the kind of person who wakes up stunned to see the sun rise, stunned to find that you have feet at the end of your legs, stunned to discover that the floor under those feet is still made out of wood, just like it has been for decades and decades. Read the rest at the Register. PIC John Paul II waving … [Read more...]

Don’t be a sex sponge.

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Most women bloggers have a loyal reader and commenter who can be described as "Issues Guy."  Like a dog has fleas, he's got issues with women -- and man, do they bite.My Issues Guy put himself right in the middle of this post on idolatry, in a tangential combox conversation which turned out to be far more interesting than the post itself  (even though the post itself had "foreskin" in the title!). Issues Guy described his perfect potential wife and marriage thus: The Plan Find a woman w … [Read more...]

Life is too short for bad sex with a good husband.

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This is the greatest letter I’ve gotten in a million years. It’s from MightyMighty at Letters To Us. I’ve bolded the best lines. She mentions Greg Popcak’s excellent book Holy Sex, which I’ve been meaning to review for a long time; and also references the Real Catholic Love and Sex blog, which is full of good and honest discussions. Here’s the letter:I don't want to be a freaky fan girl, but would like to take a sec to tell you how awesome your book is. I read it during a loooooong period o … [Read more...]

And that’s exactly why I wrote my book.

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Okay, so I've been trying not to grouse publicly about it every time someone says boo to me. This is not that!I came across a review that thought the first two third of my book ("NFP and your spiritual life" and "NFP and the rest of the world") were good, but he really didn't like the third part ("NFP in the trenches").  He's an NFP teacher, and thinks that maybe we need to talk about intimate things, but only in an intimate setting:  literally, person to person. His review got a c … [Read more...]

Try this one weird trick for ending the war on women

You know what would cut through 99% of this crap, where we find ourselves arguing about whether or not saying, "Yes, I want to have sex with you" counts as sufficient consent, and whether or not "bystander intervention training" is sexist, and who's waging a war on whom, and who's winning?  Try following this simple rule: If you are not married, assume there is never consent; and if you are married, treat your spouse like a person, not a thing. I know I know I know. I know all the things, … [Read more...]


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