How patriarchy ‘calls into question the validity’ of a sacrament

Catholic Answers: “The reason why the question ‘Who gives this woman to this man?’ never appears in a Catholic marriage liturgy is because the freedom of both parties to marry each other is so important that any suggestion that there is a lack of freedom by the bride to enter into the marriage — that she has, instead, been ‘given’ into marriage by her father alone or by her parents together or by anyone else — could call into question the validity of the marriage.”

Feelings unknown and you’re all alone

OK, so I’ve got less than a month left to clear out all the bookmarks from Google Reader. Here are a bunch of them, including: Why biblical inerrancy isn’t biblical; the biblical reasons for covering your poo; for God so likes the world; personal responsibility for the powerless, but not the powerful; and more.

6 years ago: Torture

Torture is ineffective and corrosive, and a certain path to military defeat.

9 years ago: No apologies

The pictures from Abu Ghraib — and the revelation that this goes far, far beyond the actions of a few “bad apples” or “morons” — has forced every American to react in one of two ways. We are either made to feel ashamed of our country, or else we are forced to rationalize away that shame by reassuring ourselves that we can condone torture and still be good people, and that anyway Saddam was worse.

Postcards from the culture wars

A long due apology from an ex-ex-gay; still waiting for a non-sectarian argument against equality; “you need to work on your marriage;” a forceful endorsement of amnesty for immigrants; wearing pants as an expression of “hostility;” doctors favor more access to health care — even for women; “Nazism, Communism, Marxism and all the ‘isms.’”

Sunday favorites

Isaiah 30:1-3: “Oh, rebellious children, says the Lord … who set out to go down to Egypt without asking for my counsel, to take refuge in the protection of Pharaoh, and to seek shelter in the shadow of Egypt; Therefore the protection of Pharaoh shall become your shame.”

8 years ago: Apocalypse & Power

David Dark: “If the powers that be are the boot which, to borrow Orwell’s phrase, presses down upon the human face forever, apocalyptic is the speech of that human face. Apocalyptic denies, in spite of all the appearances to the contrary, the ‘forever’ part.”