Spiritual exploration is not for the fainthearted. If all you want from your spiritual journey is success and ease, then forget spiritual direction. In most all spiritual traditions—and especially Christianity—it can be a painful process to “see the light.” One Quaker notion is that even while we desire the light of Christ in our heart, that same light shines into all the dirty corners of our life causing us to see parts of ourselves that we spend a lot of time trying to run from. Still there is the promise of peace and deep inner joy when we accept all of who we are and the love that God is showing us in that light.
I’m not one of those Christians that says “you must suffer in order to grow.” In fact I’m tired of hearing some Christians talk about a kind of God that tests us with suffering or even causes suffering so we will grow. Suffering simply is. It’s a part of life. We don’t need to seek it out in order to become more worthy in God’s eyes, nor do we need to blame God when we face it. Sometimes our suffering is redemptive. Other times it wears us down. Spiritual direction and spiritual exploration can help us figure out how we choose to make sense of our suffering.
Our historical friend St. Ignatius speaks of a kind of spiritual wrestling that is valuable to our growth—desolation. Desolation is that experience of feeling far away from God. And while the spiritual path is devoted to becoming deeper in relationship with God, it is extremely important that we know what gets in the way of that relationship. Desolation is our spiritual teacher.
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