I.D.I.C., Find Out What it Means to Me: A Trekkie’s Search for Self Love

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Since Star Trek: Into Darkness  is launching this week,  I thought I’d repost this article I wrote for In Our Words, a Queer collective Blog. It’s not appropriate for kids! They told me not to visit the Eagle.  They were wrong. *** Wednesday night in Vegas. The small string of gay bars – the “Fruit [...]

Freedom of Speech and Public Schools

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A recent fight over freedom of speech in schools has prompted me to air out my thoughts on this complex and important topic. The Boston Spirit reports on the controversy (03.02.2013): The American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) successfully fought to allow a high school student in Connecticut to wear a shirt that included anti-gay imagery. Wolcott [...]

George Takei Enchants NPR, Changes My Life

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The first time I met George Takei I was too terrified to speak. My brother had to drag me toward the desk where he was sitting, and took on the responsibility to communicate that we were hoping he would sign a photo for my Mum. When told she had been feeding us Star Trek since [...]

The Wages of Prejudice

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It wasn’t long ago that gay marriage was a wedge issue that consistently helped Republicans turn out the vote. It was part of the Republican playbook to plonk a gay marriage amendment on the ballot to get their base to the polls. Today’s results -  the victory of Tammy Baldwin, the first openly gay senator, in [...]

Congratulations, Cardinal!

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It’s not often that I congratulate Cardinals of the Roman Catholic Church, but I feel I must, in this case, extend my warmest congratulations to Cardinal Keith O’Brien, who won the coveted “Bigot of the Year” award from UK gay rights organization Stonewall recently. It is truly well-deserved: he wrote a fantastically hateful article on the [...]

Sometimes We Cannot Be Civil. But I Can.

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Thanks to commenter Giliell, whose comment on this post inspired me, to Dan Fincke for much writing on this topic, and to Ethan, for discussing these issues with me last night. I am for civil discussion. I oppose the use of demeaning language and rhetoric in every situation, against every foe. I believe that we [...]

Gifts from GALA – A Sense of Solidarity

It’s easy to talk about being part of a “movement”. It’s a lot harder to get people to feel like they are part of a movement, to feel responsibility for each other, to feel like they share a common cause, to feel love for each other. But last week I felt it. I felt, deep in my core, what it means to be part of the LGBTQ Chorus movement, I felt the cause is righteous, and I knew that we can use the power of music to change lives. It was an experience I will carry with me for the rest of my life, and I’m certain that the youth on that stage will remember it always, too.

Magic Mike: Complete (lack of) Bollocks

Apparently, gay men are “flocking” (is that truly the preferred collective noun for gay men? A “flock”?) to see Magic Mike, Channing Tatum’s naked ass beckoning us to the theatre. I’ll warrant many will be disappointed by what they find there. Magic Mike is a deeply unsexy movie: one that does more to reveal America’s weird relationship with gender, sex and sexuality than it does to reveal the bodies of the strippers.