Stay at home moms, stop saying you don’t work…

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... If there is one thing that totally grates my nerves, it's women who stay at home to take care of their families apologetically refer to themselves as someone who "doesn't work."Just this week I met a beautiful woman who just had a baby. She told me that as soon as she was able to go back to work she'd feel more like she was contributing to the family - as if caring for her child was somehow not contributing.Momma, you work! Trust me, you work.Whether you're a mom who labors … [Read more...]

Stupid things people assume about my small Catholic family…

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... In a religion where family size is looked upon as a marker of piety and fidelity to Church teaching, the woman with only one child, or no children, is often treated with a certain degree of suspicion.Is she selfish, contracepting, or just not that fertile?Mom bloggers often write about the rude comments they encounter from strangers, and even from some family and friends, who ridicule their choice to have a large family. I know the comments can be truly awful, thoughtless, … [Read more...]

When did lunch time become so complicated…

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... So my son comes home from school and tells me about this new lunch time trend. Bento boxes. A Bento what?Bento boxes are elaborate and intricately designed lunch time meals stuffed in cutesy little boxes. They usually have a popular theme and, like all things nauseatingly adorable, originated in Japan.In other words...Firstly, depending on the age, kids should be making their own lunch. Secondly...I'm doing good to throw a can of soup in a bag and remember to … [Read more...]

How To Make Prayer Fun and Less Chore Like for Kids…

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... Dear Catholic Parent,You can't. Next question.Seriously, why do we give our kids chores?Because we are sadistic and enjoy their misery? Free child labor? We find their whines pleasing to the ear?OK, maybe a little.No, we give our kids chores because it teaches them responsibility. It teaches them that they are functioning members of a family and they serve a purpose.So get rid of the notion that chores are bad.Another trend I notice is that parents like … [Read more...]

This Season I am Going to be the Most Encouraging Mom at the Ball Park…

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... I am that mom. That mom at your kid's sports event. Not exactly a soccer mom. I don't know what soccer moms do or what it is about them that earn them the label 'soccer mom' -- I think it has to do with being suburban and driving minivans, both of which do not apply. Also, I am not sure if being a soccer mom has anything to do with being a fan of the sport or not, cause honestly, I can't see anyone, outside of Seattle, caring about soccer in this country.No, I'm worse than a soccer mom. … [Read more...]

Those Horrible Catholics Down the Street…

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... That would be my family, of course. The same family that marked the arrival to our new home with big Catholic statuary in the yard, announcing to all ... the papists are coming, the papists are coming!My evangelical neighbors have been cautious with us when allowing their children to play with my son. After all I let my son read Harry Potter and Greek mythology, which I've heard is tantamount to devil worship. Oh, and then there's the statues. And the worship of statues. And statues … [Read more...]

The Superiority of the Convert Catholic…

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... I like to think converts are a special type of Catholic, and I'm not just saying that because I'm one. Converts intentionally seek out Catholicism and ultimately choose a faith that others are born to. Sometimes choosing Catholicism comes at a great price for the convert and much effort is required -- like in my case, two years of touchy feely kumbaya RCIA and one ex-husband. Those cradles take all that for granted. They don't know how easy they have it made.Only my poor son is a … [Read more...]

Protestant Hookers…

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... Kid's say the darnedest things; like that their dad's let them play Grand Theft Auto when you know full good and well this is a lie because his dad, an ex-Marine, fencing champion and Catholic deacon, would skin him alive like St. Bartholomew.But you play along because he's just a kid and there's no sport in making him look foolish. But the kid's persistent and says his getting the game for Christmas and you just roll your eyes and tell him you highly doubt it because it's a really … [Read more...]

Halloween for Lazy People and the Crafty Challenged…

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... Like everything else in my life, I wait to the last minute to post some Halloween stuff that probably could have been useful last week. You know, food treats to take to a party or your kid's class -- stuff even I can't ruin.And just look at these super cute costume's for All Saint's Day. I love them all.It pays to plan ahead. However, if you find yourself in a pinch or not quite that crafty, might I recommend a St. Sebastian costume. All you need are some Nerf gun darts, … [Read more...]


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