Dating the “discerning” man…

... "I'm discerning a vocation". When I, as a single woman hear those words from a man, especially one I'm interested in or dating, they get interpreted as the Catholic equivalent to "it's not you, it's me". I hear them and move on. In fact, I'd go as so far to say whenever I hear a man is discerning a vocation I immediately place him in my Friend Zone and he becomes off romantic limits. There's a whole slew of men like this on Catholic Match. I'd wager they're over there on Ave Maria too. … [Read more...]