The Wrong Kind of Resilience [Pope Francis Bookclub]

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In 2014, I’m reading and blogging through Pope Francis/Cardinal Bergoglio’s Open Mind, Faithful Heart: Reflections on Following Jesus.  Every Monday, I’ll be writing about the next meditation in the book, so you’re welcome to peruse them all and/or read along.I'm pulling out a longer quote from Open Mind, Faithful Heart this week because I at least should probably hang this one over my bed or something. In our sinful human heart, as well as in our mysterious clinging to the realm that Paul c … [Read more...]

The rule of my heart is mine! And no other’s!

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In the Patheos Hindu channel, Ambaa gives her perspective on Jedis and gnosticism, inspired by the same essay by Brother Humbert that prompted me to write "Emotional Weapons for a More Indifferent Age." Ambaa explains that there's a middle road between abandoning emotions and abandoning yourself to them. Quoth she: I don’t think Hinduism calls for anyone, even ascetics, to not have emotions. But a practiced monk can see the emotions playing out over his psyche and know that they are shifting a … [Read more...]

If you can’t take the heat… once more with feeling

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Can I interest you in a musical theatre illustration of my point from earlier today?I'm quite fond of the song "I'm Not Afraid of Anything" from Jason Robert Brown's Songs for a New World, and I've embedded a nice performance of it below.Here, as in most cases when I've seen the song performed, the actress ends the song in a place of vulnerability.  The last line "Cause, after all, I'm not afraid" is pretty clearly a lie, and the character is at least a little aware it's a lie.  It's … [Read more...]

If you can’t take the heat, turn into a tardigrade!

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent" is a quote that is frequently attributed to Eleanor Roosevelt (without sourcing). I found it for the first time while I was in middle school in a Dear Abby column and adopted it as a mantra until some point in college.  This can be a helpful coping strategy, especially in middle school, but I was definitely too enthused about it.I flashed back to my younger self when I read Ted Seeber's comment on my post about the campaign against Jen … [Read more...]

If only someone had said this to Stoic!Teenaged!Leah

I'm still at Rationality Camp, and I've noticed that a subset of classes all fall into a category of something I might call "Mitigating How Weird You Are."  There are some people talking about body language, clothing style, and other ways to smooth your relations with other people that LessWrongers could probably do better.  I read Tom and Lorenzo, so I've got a pretty good data base to induct heuristics from.The discussion in this genre I liked best so far was called Emotional API.  (An API … [Read more...]


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