The Misery Sweepstakes

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“You may be dying, but you should hear what’s happening to me.” “Well, enough about me, what do you think about me?” People don’t really say that kind of thing, do they?  Actually, yes, they often do. Maybe not in so many words.  But, if you listen to the shape of many conversations, you will often find that someone threw out a lifeline, looked for hope, searched for a friend, or tried to get to the bottom of something that was troubling them, and all they got in return was … [Read more...]

Be careful what you pray for

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A student of mine drew my attention to this story from Anthony Bloom’s Beginning to Pray: The lives of the saints are enlightening in this respect, and in the life of St. Philip Neri just such an occasion is described. He was an irascible man who quarreled easily and had violent outbursts of anger and of course endured violent outbursts from his brothers. One day he felt that it could not go on. Whether it was virtue or whether he could no longer endure his brothers his Vita does not tell us. … [Read more...]

Are demons real?

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Are demons real?  Yes. Are they Individual, identifiable and possess a power of their own?  Are they able to override and overrun the innocent without their cooperation, as in the film “Rosemary’s Baby”?  No, I don’t think so. A physician who is both a student and a friend observes, “…all of this talk of the Enemy and demons can be uncomfortable for me, living in the current century and after formal study in the scientific method.  Most demons and devils I have encountered in … [Read more...]

A dog’s life

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Bob Erskine, who is a cartoonist, recently featured a drawing in which a fortuneteller is sitting across the table from a dog.  Peering into the crystal ball before her, the fortuneteller says to the dog, “I see a series of short-term romances, a number of territorial disputes, some questionable food choices and a lot of naps.” The quick identification with the dog’s fortune that the cartoon invites is, of course, at the heart of its genius.  On days when our lives seem overwhelmed by … [Read more...]

The thing is we all have our thing

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I have a friend who is addicted to all things Mac. Steve Jobs announced the arrival of the new Mac Air Book two days ago and yesterday my friend negotiated his Christmas present.  As a fellow Mac devotee, I am keenly aware of how strongly attractive this all is.  In fact, I've often thought it is more than a little scary that the company logo is an apple with a bite taken out of it.  Great shades of Adam and Eve.  But I take refuge in the knowledge that the Hebrew doesn't actually say it … [Read more...]

Cream of Wheat in a Pop Tart Culture

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My wife worked for a major advertising firm in Chicago and one of their clients was Cream of Wheat.  In the face of a culture that was increasingly given to things that were sticky, sweet, and easily prepared --- like Pop Tarts --- the folks at Cream of Wheat struggled to market their product. In working with the firm it became clear that one of the challenges they faced was that they were trying to sell Cream of Wheat --- instead of selling its experience or its benefits.  What finally … [Read more...]

What goes around comes around

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In a world where we are accustomed to fixing or replacing things, it is not surprising that we find ourselves wanting the same thing in our spiritual lives.  We want our spiritual struggles ended now. But typically, what goes around comes around.    All the biggest issues in our spiritual lives are usually defining for us.   They revolve around early, formative experiences and relationships or around life-shaping characteristics.  And for that reason, they can’t be fixed and … [Read more...]

From the Director’s Chair: Bad Guilt

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Not all guilt is good guilt.  Good guilt is temporary.  It alerts us to spiritual danger and provides us with a way back to God.  Good guilt is not a way of life.  It is a way back to life.  That’s a good thing. Bad guilt has nothing to do with God’s desire for us.  It hangs around, makes a home, and drives us away from God. There are at least two kinds of bad guilt. One kind is false or unreasonable guilt…a sense of remorse or responsibility for things we have no power to … [Read more...]


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