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The Pagan Heart Looking For eHarmony

Salon’s Rebecca Traister a self-proclaimed “pagan feminist” takes on the evangelical (but expanding into secular markets) dating service eHarmony and interviews its founder Neil Clark Warren.

“As for my romantic prospects, Warren had some grim news. He said that because I was bright, I “lose at least 95 percent of candidates because of IQ.” Great. Apparently, I also need someone articulate, ambitious and energetic. In short, as Warren said, I am “looking for a rare, rare, rare person.” He laughed when I told him that I had received more than 20 matches but that only a couple sounded even remotely appealing. “Well, you’d be lucky if you found one in that batch,” he said, adding that one is all I need.”

Letters in response to the article are already pouring in, many of which focus on how a secular Pagan and a evangelical Christian interacted and if the liberal Traister was being fair to Warren. So I’m wondering (academically of course, I’m happily married) what dating service would be best for modern Pagans looking for a mate?

One response so far

  • Chalicechick

    I have to say that, having read the peice, I think Traister really did plan to slam the guy. I agree with the letters that say she comes off less sympathetically than he does.That:1. Warren seems like a good guy.2. He doesn’t believe what she does.seem to be incompatible ideas for her. I found it really annoying that she found all of that so shocking. Oh well.