The (Not Really All That Dark) Origins of Valentine’s Day

Tomorrow is the feast of St. Valentine aka St. Valentine’s Day, and this year, as in many years before it, there have been several articles mentioning the Pagan origins of the romantic holiday. Take this example from NPR.

From February 13 to 15, the Romans celebrated the feast of Lupercalia. The men sacrificed a goat and a dog, then whipped women with the hides of the animals they had just slain. [...] Later, Pope Gelasius I muddled things in the fifth century by combining St. Valentine’s Day with Lupercalia to expel the pagan rituals. But the festival was more of a theatrical interpretation of what it had once been. Dr. Lenski adds, “It was a little more of a drunken revel, but the Christians put clothes back on it. That didn’t stop it from being a day of fertility and love.”

As much as I love a good “Christians appropriate pagan holidays” story,  in reality, St. Valentine’s Day most likely isn’t the holiday created to replace Lupercalia. When Lupercalia observances were suppressed by Pope Gelasius I in 494, the pre-existing Feast of the Presentation of Jesus at the Temple (which in the Julian calendar fell on the same day as Lupercalia) was promoted in Rome as the purification of the Virgin Mary (later called Candlemas, a holiday Pope Innocent XII believed was created in opposition to Roman paganism). Since the month of February and Lupercalia were seen as times of purification by the Romans (indeed, February was a month full of celebrations and observances in ancient Rome), the new emphasis on Mary’s purification makes perfect sense. The Feast of St. Valentine, established two years later by Gelasius doesn’t seem to have much to do with the replacement of Lupercalia.

If you want to blame someone for equating love with St. Valentine’s Day, you’ll most likely have to blame Geoffrey Chaucer (who hath a blog). As for the festival of Lupercalia, the ancient Roman observance of fertility and the coming spring, it should not to be confused with the commercialized martyr’s celebration. Though, while equating Valentine’s Day with Lupercalia is incorrect, the yearly press blitz has done more to further awareness of ancient (and modern) Paganism than any Pagan advocacy group could hope to attain. So perhaps, as more people grow sick and tired of the Valentine’s Day expectations, perhaps I’ll be hearing more “blessed Lupercalias” in the future.

Instead of branding Valentine’s Day as ours, we should instead take a cue from P. Sufenas Virius Lupus and look to reviving some other Roman festivals from February, like The Parentalia, a major festival honoring the ancestors, or the movable feast of Fornacalia, where we clean and bless our baking ovens. Truly, we are spoiled for choice. So let Halmark have Valentine’s Day, we’ve got plenty of other festivals and holidays to celebrate or revive.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Sammy-Hain/1040334758 Sammy Hain

    Sorry, not giving up reclaiming Valentine's Day. How many martyred christian saints do you see around this time, and how many little naked Roman love gods? Few other times of the year offer as much honor to a pagan god. Also the theme of the day in honoring our partners in equally beautiful romantic and carnal terms carries much more of a pagan message than any Saint's day could allow.

    Also, the Lupercalia celebration has another positive message. It was a day when singles would draw names to be led to their true loves by the gods. It wasn't a day just for couples, as most people feel about Valentine's Day, it was a day for the lucky singles to put their faith in Love and the Divine to find their soulmates.

    I hope all the single people head out tomorrow, put on their finest wolfskins, offer a prayer to cupid…and end the night getting beat with a dead animal! LoL

    Blessed Lupercalia to ALL

  • Baruch Dreamstalker

    To judge from a couple of lines in "Julius Caesar" the touch of the Lupercal scourge was supposed to enhance fertility. Interesting sex ed those Romans must have had…

  • Pagan Puff Pieces

    I don't think it's a good idea to go around saying what sounds like "Happy Fornicalia."

    That might get sticky.

    • Rombald

      Yes, I see what you mean.

      Interestingly, they have the same etymology, from the word for "arch". "Fornication" means sex under the arch, i.e. with a street prostitute. In architecture, "fornicate" means having arches.

      It also meant "oven", which had an arched entrance, hence "furnace", also "fourneau" – French for "oven".

      • Crystal7431

        That's so neat. I've never checked into the roots of fornication. Thanks for the tidbit.

      • Matt Gerlach

        I want to open a Bakery called "The Fornicatory" or "The Fornicatorium"

  • http://www.thehighwayhermit.com highway_hermit

    Whatever historical roots Valentine's day does or doesn't have, it's moved a long way beyond them: in its modern interpretation it's become another Frankenstein's monster full of commercial glut and commandments to buy, buy, buy.

    • sarenth

      Sounds like a lot of overcommercialized holidays these days.

  • Shan_Eda

    Parentalia sounds good to me. I live in Canada & we have a 'Family Day' holiday that falls on the 3rd Monday of February- not just for pagans, but for everyone!

  • chuck_cosimano

    Whatever it's origins, its a beautiful day for a Massacre. Oh, and all that boring lovey dovey stuff too I suppose.

  • http://www.kmareka.com ninjanurse

    I would much rather be given a box of chocolates than be whipped with a bloody goat hide. But that's just me. I'm like that.

    • Crystal7431

      They didn't whip you repeatedly. The point was just to make sure you got a good rap to ensure fertility, then go on with your celebrating, hypothetically anyway.

  • Crystal7431

    I think I would be more in to Lupercalia if I were permitted to run down the streets naked whipping people. Why do the men get all the fun?

  • http://kauko-niskala.blogspot.com kauko

    As I understand it, in Finland instead of Valentine's Day they celebrate Ystävänpäivä (Friend's Day) which, given that I'm perpetually single, I can appreciate a lot more.

  • Caisaros

    «St. Valentine's day» does indeed have a Pagan origin, not only from the Lupercalia, but also from the worship, precisely at 14th February, of Juno Februra, that is, Juno as a Goddess of the Lovers. In ancient Rome, February 14th was a holiday to honour Juno. Juno was the Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. The Romans also knew her as the Goddess of women and marriage. http://www.pictureframes.co.uk/pages/saint_valent…