My sexuality and my journey to figure it out.

I have been trying to figure out my sexuality since I was 12. Throughout the years, I have had several boyfriends, but I never felt anything when we kissed. This was weird to me considering the media makes it sound like you are supposed to feel fireworks and all that nice shit. I even had [Read More...]

Matt Fradd discusses “10 Myths About Pornography”

The Franciscan University of Steubenville puts out regular videos about various topics, such as theological debates and lectures. In this particular lecture, it features Matt Fradd, who discuses “10 Myths About Pornography”. Here’s how you’ll know it’ll be fun – He’s a Catholic Apologist. That, an he’s a fun speaker. Sorry – this is a long article. [Read more...]

UK bans certain sex acts in porn, many aimed at female pleasure

Unlike here in the United States, the United Kingdom does not have a constitution that outlines their right to freedom of speech or expression, which has allowed American pornographers to make pretty much anything they want. In the UK, the government just quietly amended the 2003 Communications Act, which governs the nations porn production. The Audiovisual [Read More...]

Darrel Ray enters the world of podcasting with Secular Sexuality!

ich, let’s face it, is a pretty big draw as far as topics go.  Life just got a little better because Dr. Ray (not to be confused with Dr. Dre, though equally dope on the mic) has launched a new podcast: Secular Sexuality. He’s already almost 10 episodes in so there’s plenty to listen to. [Read More...]

Greg Abbott Can’t Overturn True Marriage

On Monday, Texas Attorney General Greg Abbott filed an appeal to reverse the ruling that found the state’s ban on same-sex marriage to be unconstitutional made by a US District Court back in February. In his brief, which feebly tried to defend the ban, Attorney General Abbott made the claim that (emphasis my own) “[because] [Read More...]

Device to help vagina-havers do Kegels

Let’s throw in some sexiness to spice up the blog this Friday evening! There’s a Kickstarter going for the next 38 days to fund a device intended to help people with vaginas strengthen their pelvic floor muscles via Kegel exercises. It’s pretty nifty! They’re calling it the kGoal Smart Kegel Trainer, and they’ve currently received [Read More...]

Mark Gungor and The Creeping Futility of Welding God to Sex

One of the great things about evolution is that it explains the baffling nuances of human sexual life without the need for any knots of metaphysical moral mongering.  It’s that clarity you gain when you ask What Is rather than What Ought, and seek answers from the bottom up (so to speak) rather than the [Read More...]

Guest post by Dr. Darrel Ray: sex addiction is a non-existent diagnosis.

Not that long ago, there was a whole cottage industry developed around the psychological treatment and rehabilitation of homosexuals or “reparative therapy.” Professionally trained men and women, using scientific terminology, dedicated themselves to helping homosexuals get over their crippling psychological problems and reintegrate back into society. Most people today scoff at such a concept, and [Read More...]

I got a shout out in Jaclyn Glenn’s new video about seeeeeex.

It wasn’t many years ago where I never would’ve dreamed of people like Matt Dillahunty, Seth Andrews, Jaclyn Glenn, and the like knowing who I was.  To have now become friends with some of them, and to even have them occasionally cite my work as if to say that the luminaries in my chosen field [Read More...]

I slept with a married woman.

Since I’m on the road today I figured I’d dig into the vault and put one of my older pieces up.  The piece, when it was originally posted, was titled Adventures in Polyamory.  The original title was I Slept with a Married Woman, but at the time I was working for the SSA and my [Read More...]