Is the Conversation About Consent Enough? Or Do We Need to Talk About Intimacy?

At the Washington Post, Jonathan Zimmerman is pushing for the latter - and it makes sense. And from my perspective, the church should be setting a very high bar here (we are not) in modeling the centrality of intimacy, and covenant commitment, in Christian coupling. And this, not as a way of shaming sex or bodies or even those who engage or have engaged in casual sex, but rather as the high call to which we are graciously invited, that completely affirms the goodness of sex and bodies and is root … [Read more...]

#FFFF: Emily Dause

I grew up believing that being married one day was a crucial part of my existence. Finding the man I was meant to be with would complete me.  I didn’t learn these ideas from Disney movies or pop music on the radio. I learned these ideas at church.When sermons regularly focused on marriage, adults told me to listen and store the truth away for my future union.Sunday School teachers shared their fervent prayers for their children’s future spouses.Camp counselors drew diagrams to sho … [Read more...]