For the last 6 months I've been dating a guy.
He's a Republican and a Christian. I know. I know.
When we first started dating we had these really great debates and he was so happy with me. The first time I told him that I had feelings for him-- that I loved him-- he said he had had feelings from early on. He has a 6 year old son that I take care of regularly. I even read him bedtime stories. We even mentioned marriage a few times. The other day, he asked me my ring size!!! I couldn't believe that.
Yesterday, while I was watching his son, I got on his laptop to look at dishwashers. I need a new one, so I wanted to compare prices at a few places. When I went to open a new tab, it showed favorite websites. One of them was match.com.
I clicked on it, and his profile was still logged in. He had been corresponding with a couple of girls since the end of November/ beginning of December. I was so pissed that I called him and said, "I need to bring your son to your workplace." "Why?" "Because I'm breaking up with you." "Why???" "Because I saw your match.com account. I know you've been planning to meet with girls."
And guess what he said.... "No! I haven't!!"
I caught the f*cker red handed and he lied to me.
I am so miserable right now. I haven't eaten any food since yesterday.
WHY? Why would he do this??? I am so confused. I have been good to him. Sure, I've been stern when he stepped on my toes, but overall I have been really, really good to him.
The worst part is that on his match.com profile he said that he goes to church most every Sunday (he's been once in the 6 mos. we've been together and that was only after a fight we had.) and that he really enjoys cooking with someone (which he only started doing WITH ME.)