{"id":263,"date":"2003-10-12T22:42:00","date_gmt":"2003-10-12T22:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adrianwarnock.com\/2003\/10\/words-of-a-wounded-man\/"},"modified":"2003-10-12T22:42:00","modified_gmt":"2003-10-12T22:42:00","slug":"words-of-a-wounded-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/adrianwarnock\/2003\/10\/words-of-a-wounded-man\/","title":{"rendered":"Words of a wounded man&#8230;&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>Hurt by the church and since become an atheist I discovered this poem which sadly reflects on what occurs in all too many churches.  I wish he had met the church I am in, or one similar.<\/p>\n<p><em>They preach about fulfilling life,<br>\n<br>But are the cause of endless strife.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Despite the power of what they say,<br>\n<br>It doesn\u2019t take their lusts away,<br>\n<br>There is no limit to abuse,<br>\n<br>When \u201cwhat I want\u201d is on the loose.<\/p>\n<p>No wonder now that I would lurch,<br>\n<br>Despairingly from church to church,<br>\n<br>In search of what should really be,<br>\n<br>A love and power that could change me.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of that they took from me,<br>\n<br>The means to live in luxury,<br>\n<br>And squeezing dry my life each day,<br>\n<br>They\u2019d throw the empty husk away.<\/p>\n<p>And then at last I saw for sure,<br>\n<br>The motivation all too clear,<br>\n<br>I left the church \u2013 I did not grieve,<br>\n<br>But somehow yet I\u2019d still believe.<\/p>\n<p>There are too many hurting victims of the church as it ought not to be out there.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hurt by the church and since become an atheist I discovered this poem which sadly reflects on what occurs in all too many churches. 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