{"id":2666,"date":"2007-05-17T17:16:00","date_gmt":"2007-05-17T17:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adrianwarnock.com\/2007\/05\/a-pastoral-response-to-online-dating-josh-harris\/"},"modified":"2017-09-16T18:10:16","modified_gmt":"2017-09-16T17:10:16","slug":"a-pastoral-response-to-online-dating-josh-harris","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/adrianwarnock\/2007\/05\/a-pastoral-response-to-online-dating-josh-harris\/","title":{"rendered":"A Pastoral Response to Online Dating (Josh Harris)"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.joshharris.com\/2007\/05\/a_pastoral_response_to_online.php\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">A Pastoral Response to Online Dating (Josh Harris).<\/a> The balanced wisdom of the guys from Covenant Life Church is a real blessing. I commend this article written for members of their own church for all struggling with the issue of singleness and whether online dating is the answer. The last time I wrote about online dating, I speculated that blogging might lead to relationships that arose in a more natural way. Not sure if anyone out there would care to share any stories of love found in a comment box \u2014 or is that still a vision of the future that has yet to come?<\/p>\n<p>Mind you, actual open courting on the Internet via the blogs is perhaps not a good idea. One blogger I know recently declared his secret crush for a certain other female Christian blogger in a blog post \u2014 I think it was perhaps a bit tongue-in-cheek as otherwise it was really rather risky!<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Pastoral Response to Online Dating (Josh Harris). The balanced wisdom of the guys from Covenant Life Church is a real blessing. 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